It's so odd, now that I look back on my whole forties, how I started to derail in so many ways way back around 8-10 years ago (weightgain yes, but emotional upheaval/depression, growing hair on my face, etc) and it hasn't been until I stopped getting regular periods and getting those first hot flashes/night sweats that it occurred to me that 'whoa, this is perimenopaus !' I'm 48 now, and it's been 3.5 months since my last cycle, and who knows when or if my next will come. I feel I'm floating in limbo with hot flashes all day , and restless nights, and at times irritable and intolerable. I know I'll come around, but this is not for pansies ! And I personally will not take hormones to offset anything, so I'm just facing it, letting it happen, trying not to be too bothered. I admit at first I was afraid, like something was wrong with me, and that made it even worse, as I was worried and stressed, but now I've talked to enough women, I just am waiting for this menopause to be over. My DH is an absolute saint for having so much patience with me. I am looking forward to calming down in a body that isn't amped up with hormones all the time !
Last edited by Hermit Girl; 06-03-2010 at 09:19 AM.
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