Hey ladies,
The weekend was pretty busy and not much eventful happening.
Spent Saturday down at mom's. All four of us kids were there plus four of the grandkids. We made progress but there is still so much to be done. We've decided to try to get a trash dumpster brought out. We need to throw away so much stuff. Why does she have so much crap? Stuff that should have been thrown away years ago. Very sad to see how my mother has been living and when did it get so bad and where was I? I might have said this before but I'm both embarrassed and horrified by the condition of the house (cleanliness). I also have periods of just being angry that she let it get so bad. One of her sisters tried to tell me that we kids should go easy on her and not stress her out too much nor be too hard on her about getting rid of stuff. I explained to my aunt (in not so nice tones) that had mother been taking better care of herself and the place, then we wouldn't need to be doing this now. If she'd have done what we asked after dad passed away, then it wouldn't be the disaster it is now. To her defense, she has not been feeling well for the last year. But that doesn't inspire her to take better care of her health. She eats stuff that is bad for her diabetes and her weight. The nuclear stress test is tomorrow.
The original buyer has now decided that he can't get a loan to buy the place. So she made an appointment with a realtor for today and the house is now on the market. Fortunately, my BIL is also a real estate agent so he was there to participate and give mom advice. So we're still on with the move.
We looked at the rolltop desk and its beautiful. We agreed to take it. But then last night, I measured the door to the bedroom that will be my office. The door is too narrow however they have figured out how to get it apart so that it will work. I told them I don't want to take it until Labor Day weekend. Give me time to get the room straightened up.
Allergies are a little better. I do think some of it is due to the work down at mom's - all kinds of dust, dirt and crud.
I saw my first black widow spider on Saturday. The guys working in the shop area in dad's stuff were not impressed. She was big and looked to have babies. Pretty for a spider.
I have actually been working with horses this week. Stuff I should have been doing all summer but the between moving and the heat, just didn't happen. But I have been working with Peso (yearling). Last night was round pen work that was a good workout for me since it was her first session. Then it was a lesson that she can stand and be brushed. Tonight was more of the same. I cleaned her feet and brushed her good tonight and she did excellent at just standing there. Just needs some TLC and consistent attention. And it was wonderful to be able to do that for 20 minutes and then be done AND BE AT HOME!
Lilion -
for all the trauma you're going through with DH's change in jobs. While its difficult on you all, how is he liking it? You asked about the oatmeal. I buy Bob's Red Mill steel cut oats. I can't find it at the W-M Super Centers though but do find it at Price Chopper if you have one in Jeff City. I bring water to a boil and then add the oats. I turn it on the lowest setting and let it cook while getting ready - about 20 minutes or so. Cook it for a shorter time for a chewier oat. I've seen others mention that they cook it in the crockpot overnight. Seemed a bit much for oatmeal to me but slow cooking makes it better for the cholesterol benefits. But I see that you tried that again and didn't work. I bought some instant whole grain oatmeal at W-M that I haven't tried yet. Hope its not the same thing as yours!
on your loss. Great job!
Siena - Welcome back and good for you for recognizing excuses and doing something about it. Think in terms of healthy eating and healthy way of life - not dieting! My body doesn't like the junk food for long either.
That might be a good sign!
Valerie - Good to see you checking in. I am so glad that DH is being more considerate. Sometimes they need a bat upside the head to get the point.
Drive safe!
Barb.G -
well, drama might as well be a enough reason to be excited about going to work.
Keep us posted! What a bummer that you didn't get to meet Valerie.
for your SIL.
Harkeystarkey - I wondered that too about the stevia plant. Thanks for the good wishes. Some days it is hard to keep up with everyone which is good that our thread moves a little slower than the other one!
Angela - I love seeing your pic. Helps to have the face with the name. Yes, depression can be the reason your body is craving the sleep. That and stress from the financial situation. How many classes are you teaching this fall? Have you gotten your checking account back? Hope so! I read that Deadwood was recently cancelled so I'm betting that the last show isn't a wrap-up show that ends the series. I love the show but hate the language.
Ruth -
for your mom. Keep us posted on how she's doing. Prayers for her and that its not malignant. Take care of yourself too.
Karen - I liked your list. Congrat for getting noticed even if you don't want the attention! Do share about the stevia plant.
Celery - Great that you are back in school and that you really like the classes. Study hard! And what a great bonus that you'll be getting in that extra exercise having to walk.
Thin -
Keep us posted on your FIL. I hope it isn't anything serious.
on getting your groove back and the scale being kind to you. That is great that you found a doc you like. DH (also diabetic) has been having good success with Byetta which is a diabetic med that has the side effect of curbing your appetite. He started at 261 and is currently at 224. The doc is thrilled. Hope your mom gets some relief soon.
I started this at work a few days ago and emailed it home. I figured tonight I better get it finished off and posted before you think I have abandoned you.
to everyone! Hopefully I have got replies done for the last thread and didn't miss anyone.
Old Hens - 40+ and Ready to Lose...volume #87
Well, actually, I do know the burrito things - 3. I'm giving myself 10 points...making myself 11 into my flex for the week. Hopefully I'll be better the rest of the week!
See ya later. Love 
ya bunches!
I got my schedule juggled around just the way I needed and I love my instructors. 
No problems with food. I got a great little insulated caddy for $6 (at the Big Lots no less 
) that has 3 separate compartments for everything in about 8"h x 4" Easy to carry. 
By the way, have you ever heard of freecycle.com? There are a lot of people that would love nothing more than to come and claim your "junk". No expense for anyone. They live for that stuff, i've used them a lot out here. Soooo easy! 
Way to go on the loss! You can stay STRONG! 
I can't even hear people talk about certain things. One time I went to the dr and told the nurse she was going to have to lay me down. I told her I would pass out. She thought she was going to "get me through this", patted me on the back and proceded to put me in a chair. As soon as the rubber thingy went on my arm I was OUT! I woke up to the dr chewing her out "SHE TOLD YOU SHE NEEDED TO LAY DOWN!" 
But i'm still fighting to keep my routine as a priority. I HAVE to do this! 
Ahhhh - THIS is summer!
87 degrees with a little breeze...makes you want to be a smoker 
so you can waste the work day in front of the building! 
