300+ And Ready To Try Again...#866
 

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We are a group of individuals who weigh or have weighed 300+, or near there. This group was formed to provide a place for others like us to find support and hope. We are aware of the distinct problems that come with weighing over 300 lbs.

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Thankful Thursday
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Kaylee - that sounds awesome! I remember when I was young and used to go to concerts all the time. They were such fun. My favorite to go to was AC/DC, they really rocked the house down. But that was back with the original lead singer a million years ago. The first time I saw them they were opening along with Journey for Aerosmith. Ah, those were the days. You could smoke a joint at the concert and nobody messed with you about it or trip, it was great and I was so thin! Those were the good old days.

Now I feel like I am really hitting the edge if I drink a regular coke or eat dessert. Life has gotten very weird. I am tired of food being such a big part of my life. My very boring life. ahem, anyway, the shoulder is a little better today but still messed up. Couldnt make a dr appointment yet due to parent's schedules right now. They are picking up a "new" car tonight. Mom is so excited about it. I would have thought they would get a truck for dad since his air conditioning doesnt work anymore but they got a car for mom...go figure.

I have not gone back and read the posts on the thread before this yet. I just did two exercise videos back to back and I am pooped. I just wanted to pop in and participate a bit.

I hope all are well. Oh, no gym for me today, my son forgot about me and got busy with something else so by the time I called him it was too late. He says he will go with me in the morning but i will believe it when it happens...he is as much a morning person as i am and I am NOT a morning person by any stretch of the imagination. I should have been a vampire!

I'm sorry, I'm waaaay too ill to do personals right now. I just wanted to let everyone know that I love and appreciate you!

And I wanted to let you know I wont be around much for a few days. I probably wont have time to pop on tomorrow unless I'm off sick again (I'm feeling way worse now than ever) but I am going to try my damnedest to make it to work tomorrow. Then Nat will be here for the weekend tomorrow night so I wont have much time this weekend either ;) .

Hi everyone!!

I've missed a few days of posts and I don't even have time to go back and read to catch up

So....
to all the losers...CONGRATS
to all those frustrated....hang in there
to all those sad... :hug:
to all those happy.... YAY!!!
to all those sick.................i hope you feel better soon
to all those over worked and under paid....I'm right there with ya!!
to all the people who I missed....sorry and :hug:

Life has been crazy, I'm self employed and I run two small businesses, one with my Hubby and one on my own. Busy is good and busy = $$$ but I'm really feeling tired right now. I love that I don't work in an office 9-5 and that I have flexibility and can see clients when it works for both of us but I need to start scheduling some time off, I've been working nonstop for over a month now and I need a break. I started schedling Curves in my appointment book but I'm going to have to miss tomorrow because my schedule is slammed packed full.
I did schedule my hubby for Sunday so we can go to the movies :)

Garnet, Good for you doing the exercise videos when you can't get to the gym. I SO admire that kind of commitment!

Kayley, You're not excited about that trip to The Windy City, now are you?? Have a great time at Border's!

Teahoney, where were you when I needed you?? I've lost posts I was just starting, or fairly short ones, but losing that one today killed me, especially since I was making an effort to pick on everybody! Well, not PICK on really, just reply to. sigh. I'll remember that - Control Z. ** ANYWAY, that 110 minutes was great! What a good way to not only achieve your exercise, but really shape a new habit and lifestyle.

Melindam, Doesn't it stink to lose posts? ** It sounds like your DD's school is really active. I love the movie night idea! Finally something people can really use, cheaper than most babysitters, and not money forced to be spent on high calorie stuff. ** It also sounds like you have a great program of weights & cardio. The weight will just melt off with a routine like that! Those lost inches are the key, too. The scale will come down on it's own, but the firming really makes a difference! Congrats!!

Nancy, You too are so right about energy and stamina being more important than the scale! This new class I've started doing is kicking my butt, and all I can think of is 'If only I could do this for a couple weeks I could do so much MORE of the routine.' Each day getting just a little stronger and a little leaner adds up as quick as each day eating another order of greasy fries and wasting another night in front of the boob-tube. Look out health - here we come!

Dogpal, as I told Lilion, the eliptical sounds really kick-butt! I'd like to try one someday, even if it does half kill me! Keep up the work on it!!

Ammi, I hope those test will give you some peace of mind and help find out why you're having such a problem losing. I hope you can find your energy again soon. Just looking at your picture tells me you aren't a person meant to be low-steam. You LOOK like energy and laughter, and I hope you FEEL like that soon, too! ** I just whipped out the new digital camera, but the puppy is no where to be found. Could it be? Is he actually.... sleeping??? Yup - out cold. I'll have to get more pics soon. He put on 2 more pounds in the last 3-4 weeks according to the vet. He's a whoping 9.5 pounds now. Good grief - I just realized, my less than 10 pound dog is GAINing weight faster than I'm Losing it! Something's not right here. I gotta start watching what I put in my face, which I'm just not.

Amy, Oh yeah - the tampon terrors. We have a house full of those, so we've learned to be careful about disposal. We're now up to 2 cats and 4 dogs when Bill, Max, Simon & I are home off the truck. Thank goodness the rabbit lives outside! And Simon, well, there's a reason we call him Si-monster! Nothing is sacred. ** I, for one, totally understand what you're saying about using a specific scale. I peek at the one in my bathroom, but I don't count it anymore as "real." I use the Curves scales as official myself, most of the time. ** As for that burger, remember that it's not just the points/calories, it's also super high sodium, so that won't help tomorrow's WI, so be gentle with yourself if even that one's a bit high. Good luck on that "real" scale!!! *** I hope you feel better soon and hurry back!

Lilion... Life really begins at 40??? In that case, can I go back and try again, cuz I think I missed something? I better get busy to make up for lost time - I'm behind by 5... almost 6 years!

Little Zelma, May TOM-be-gone and you be back to feeling like your usual beautiful self by the time you read this!

Luan, You mentioned Ghana - my neice studied there and has been back many times since. As a matter of fact she's probably there now and this time she took her bro, my nephew, with her. She's been working with a group of women over there, buying their handmade baskets and selling them for them. The profits go towards education and benefits for women there, who often wind up supporting their families and don't have a lot of opportunites. I hope you have a wonderful time in Australia - I know you will. Someone was just telling me, also, that Fiji is one of THE most beautiful places on Earth, so I hope it's a LONG layover. I did the hostel thing in Germany & Austria when I was 20. It was an incredible experience. I loved it & hope you will too!!

Honi/Amber, OH! I thought you said something about runny noses 24 hours a day! Phew, O.K.! I don't think I could do 11 2-year-olds at once... They need too much help staying on the pony to do more than one at a time. ;)

Maria Lucia, Catherine, Crock, BrandNewMe, Drummergirl, Thin, Leanne,Countess, Sherry (Welcome, BTW!), Melanie, Julee, Jill, VooDoo, LAnne, Vicki, Wyllenn, Kirsikka, Brenda, Tasha and ANYone else I might have missed on this go-round, have a terrific, OP day, and let's hear from ya!!

Hey guys
Happy to hear that I am not the only one having a crazy week. Comforting! :hug: Mine is almost over thank goodness and maybe next week will be a bit better. My boss is pushing me at work. She is absolutely wonderful and wants to prove a point to the higher ups and is using me to do it *L* The problem with that is that I feel like I need to even exceed her expectations since she writes my assessments. So instead of doing something in 5 days (which no one else in the building seems to be able to accomplish) I did it in 3.25 days. yay me! Not the right week for me to burn out with the extra duties of the relay and stuff.

About the relay, we take turns walking in pairs usually and during the off times, there are tents set up where you can play games, eat, get a manicure, facial, makeup done etc all free of charge :) I like it!!! Although my wonderful yet CRAZY hubby seems to think that we are going to WALK 12 hours *L* HA....I want to be pampered!! Not get ooodles of blisters *L*

One question.... does anyone else crave things they never have before??? When I was young I hated peanut butter.... even as a teen. I could LIVE on peanut butter now. Strange how things change.....

Valerie :) What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger..... Although many times when I am on my ellip I feel like IT's winning!! *L*

Brenda :wave:

Valerie...I'm just a LITTLE excited!LOL

Do you know when you have to head back out on the road?

I'm off for the night! :)

Brenda - the killer exercise class falls into the "What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger" catagory - I know whatcha mean! :D

Kayley - You have to put up with me until Sunday. Monday it's back in my cage again - maybe even Sunday night if they want us in Indiana or Kentucky by Monday morning. It's been wonderful to be home. At least I feel incredibly refreshed from a few days off. A week ago this time my poor hubby was afraid for his life.;)

OOOOOOOOooo! Had to change my Avatar! I was looking for something Easter-y or springlike, but found this one... Ya know, I'm always REEEEally close to picking the one with the guy's back flexing his muscles... beautiful. But, I decided to stay horsey instead.

Amy - I think the apple baker came from a warehouse full of richard simmons stuff from way back when and they were auctioning off stuff to clear out the warehouse. I got richard simmons socks, an ab bar, shoe inserts, tonin rings and some videos. They sold me something they were out of so they sent me the apple as an apology for the inconvenience...who knows how long they were back in that warehouse. But I wrote to Richard Simmons and he emailed me that he couldnt find instructions either I guess they dont keep a master copy of all of their products like I would. But then I am a bit obsessive compulsive about stuff. I am sure we will figure out how to zap an apple I just thought if anybody would have a chance of having one of the things it would be people on 3fc since we have all kinds of health related gadgets and stuff.

Shoulder is in a better mood today, must have slept in a better position than night before last.

Kayley - sorry to hear about your mother's bad experience at work and her colon cancer too. My mom celebrated 9 years clean on st patricks day after her colon cancer surgery.

Amber - I love the beach but the only one in the US I have been to has been on the Gulf of Mexico, not one of the pretty ones on the east or west coast. Our water is brown here.

I did get to go the cayman islands as an au pare (sp?) a million years ago for a couple of weeks. The beach and water there is magnificent! clear blue you can see the bottom of the sea.

wyllenn, thanks for clearing that up for me. So my psychiatrist is into pushing pills and logic and seems to have no clue about emotion and dealing with issues so I guess it is because she is a MD instead of a therapist type psych person. Obviously I need to ask for therapy because the pills alone are not doing it for me. Thanks again.

Dont let half a slice of cheesecake kick you out of your program! You can do this, you have been doing well and can do even better! Use some of your psychology on yourself!!

About your query, I am pretty happy with what I get out of 3fc. I have low self esteem so I never expect anyone to miss me when I am gone and I am comfortable that way. Which is good because I check out a lot with my depression and such. I am just glad I am tolerated at all for the most part. I like reading about other people having the same struggles with their weight that I am having and having successes in their struggle. It is nice to know I am not the only person my size going thru all these things which it is so easy for me to isolate and feel alone. My mom made me go with her to get hamburgers so I could ride in the new car but that is the first time I have left the inside of the house since the last time I was at the gym. I isolate a LOT. But I guess I like it that way or I wouldnt do it. But with the internet, it is not like I am so alone all the time. Especially on these boards where I actually know some people's name and have seen a pic of their face and have commisserated with them in the weight struggle. Coming online to 3fc is my primary social activity. To tell the truth, I was expecting to be ostracized after my post about the whole expectations subject. I was relieved to see it was taken as it was meant and not turned into something negative.

I get a lot out of 3fc and I am glad it is here and that all of you are here as well.

julee - CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR LOSS!!

luan - glad you enjoyed your class...I have had so much trouble with the strip lashes, I cannot fathom the individual ones, I would have them all over my face or something.

I hope you have a wonderful trip to Australia. I have always wanted to go there...well, anywhere just about. Are you going to dig for opals?

Sharon voodoo - I hope that your life settles down so that you may get back on program soon before too much damage is done! Just dont give up!!

Jill - how can your life be boring...you are living out there in the real world and you have a significant other. Anything could happen in your life because you are out there living it. you are not boring to me but you are right you need to cut the excuses and get back on program! Seems like New Years' incentives are starting to peter out around here for some of us and we just cannot let that happen. We are all worth being healthy and fit, I dont care what sort of effort it takes, we gotta do it or die trying. Or rather die for lack of trying. This is our lives here!!!

KIRSIKKA-76 - you are NOT worthless. If I have any worth at all then EVERYBODY does and they tell me I do so logically it follows that you do too.

I know what you mean about the depression but you have to fight it. Are you in treatment for it? if not you might want to check into your local clinic to see about seeing a psychiatrist. Where I live there is a county program and since my income is so low, I dont have to pay anything for my treatment. There is probably something like that where you are but you will have to pull yourself together enough to find it and get the help.

Weight loss is a struggle for all of us or we would not be overweight in the first place. Overeating is an addiction IMO and it is very difficult to overcome but NOT impossible! You are doing things right cause you have lost 4 pounds just keep up with what you are doing...calories in and calories burned get those two things under control and you will be doing great!

Tracey - You are doing GREAT with your exercise! I have really been falling down on the ball with mine. When I cant get a ride to the gym I need to just pop in a video right? Well today I did, I did two videos. one mile with Leslie Sansone and one Richard Simmons video. Probably his easiest one ever but I did it anyway. It's the first one of his I have ever done. So I am happy with myself for doing that. It does feel so much better when you exercise regularly, doesnt it? Makes ya feel like you're really doing something about your weight.

Brenda - good luck with your fundraisers, what a worthy cause!

Melindam - Congrats on no gain and on the NSV of less inches...!!

Dogpal - Welcome back to the posting! I agree about the emergency people and the obese, it really did make me think about it. One of my fears is of having to ride in an ambulance. My ex is a paramedic and I figure if he can be one, anyone can be one and I would rather just not go there...Fortunately, I have always had a ride or been within walking distance of the hospital when I needed to go.

Valerie, when is your next WI?? I want to see if you are sneaking up behind me...

Ammi - I hope that the tests with the Dr turn up something simple that will turn your weight loss back on! I am sorry you are feeling so down. I know what it is like to stay in bed all night and all day for lack of motivation to live. At least you are still coming here so that is a good thing. Take care.

Amy - I am with you! also, I really like your quote who is NKC?

kayley - Rob Zombie !!! that would be awesome...do you like his movies? House of 1000 corpses is the only one I have seen so far but I thought it was really killer.

Countess - I am happy for your finances but concerned for your wellbeing. I hope you can schedule some me time soon. Happy to hear you found room in your book for a movie with hubby.

I was good, I turned down Whataburger and went to Jack in the box with my brother and I got a southwest chicken salad and ate that. So that was a NSV for me to choose salad at a fast food restaurant! yay me.

Jill – I pretty much agree with you on my forum expectations. I love getting answers to specific questions, and I love that other people “get” a lot of what I’m going through.

Kirsikka – As I was saying, it’s great that so many other people get what we’re going through. I also love it when people post ups and downs, as that is the way it really is. You are NOT the only one who struggles!

Teahoney – woohoo on that exercise! Glad to see you like the accountability too!

A note for anyone who wants to make exercise a habit: come join us on the exercise thread! We set individual goals, but also walk toward our group total. So far we have exercised almost 200 hours this month alone!

Amy – I couldn’t be a counselor or psychiatrist – that’s why I went for a degree in another branch of psych. Plus, I am absolutely fascinated by it!! But don’t get me started talking about social psych, or I’ll go on all day!

The cheesecake was excellent, but I think I have managed to move past it and had a good day today. I am finally getting back on track with exercise! OH! And I forgot to mention when I posted my minutes in the exercise thread, that I am finally “on track” with my exercise goal for the month! YAY! I think it helped that hubby and I spent some time lately getting the basement more hospitable for humans!

As for scales, mine at home is lower than any other around (at least 5 pounds) , but I weigh on it as my regular one. It’s the scale where my starting weight of 295 came from, but from any other scale I know I was 300 pounds at least. So, I know what you mean.

Finally, if you want to stay accountable for exercise – come join us on the exercise thread!!!

As for Valerie and Melinda and others who have lost posts, I have taken to writing posts in word and then pasting them in. If I DO hit the wrong buttom, I can “undo” my mistake! I sympathize, as it’s VERY frustrating (and happens all the time on my laptop…).

Ack! Just read Tracy’s reply – ctrl-z???!!! I will have to remember that.
Ammi – Sorry I made Daren jealous with the cheesecake – I’d mail you some but then it just wouldn’t be the same. As for email… yes, you SHOULD be able to mail me there. Good luck with the blood work!

I just turned 40 last month, and everything has been the same and getting better! I loved my 30s and plan to adore my 40s!

Garnetfairy – Glad to clear up the psych issue… and don’t worry, I am NOT beating myself up about the cheesecake. It was a spontaneous decision, but I am good with it. Logged it and moved on. Actually, I’m glad I feel I can treat myself once in a while (though I don’t do it much)… it feels… normal?? Ack. That’s a scary thought!

I’m glad you get a lot out of 3fc!!

I finally had a good workout today (feels like i've slogged at it for a while nowm Maybe my head will get back in the game soon, too.

Opening Night was great!! I am so proud of my kids and all their hard work. I made it through the day well enough. Spent intermission selling junk food...but in all honesty none of it looked good. YAY!

I am so pooped..the kids all went out to celebrate tonight but I passed. I'll be with them at the cast party on Sunday and that's cool.

Hope that everyone finds at least a little time this weekend for something special.

Good Night Moon.

Hi, ladies, I’m new here and have been lurking *lol* around for a few days. So I thought I would leap in. I’ll do a profile on the profile thread if you want to take a look.
My body finally made the decision for me to start this weight lose journey. My bp was highly elevated, I was dizzy and lightheaded almost everyday, my legs ankles and feet were swollen. I could not function at work as I as on my feet and walking all most all day. So at 32ys old im on bp meds what a wakeup call. Im really not followinfg any plan just exercising at Curves, drinking water, eating fruits and vegetables lean meats like tuna ooohhh lots of tuna fish. I’ve said farewell to 12 lbs. and feeling much better.
I usually work day tour 730am to 4p but this week im working 12ato8a and things have been mixed up big time. I’ve forgotten to take my bp meds. Since im home during the day I want to eat all day long and Im up at night I want to eat then. Thank goodness everything is closed at the hospital and I carry no money with me. Tonight is my last night yaaaaaaaaahhhhhh! Well its time to check on my guys sorry I rambled on. Hope I can get to know everyone. Goodnight!

A few quick notes before bedtime!

Violet: I haven't been doing WW but I have been thinking about it. Why do you like it so much? Any input will help.

Princesspuffypants: Wow! Australia. How fun. My sweetie pie 21 year old niece will be going to college there as soon as she has all the money saved up. I myself have been in love with New Zealand ever since seeing a Documentary on it. I would love to go their or Spain.

Lilion: Thank you soooo much for making 40's sound inviting. I will be turning 40 in June. I have asked my hubby very early to invite my parents and aunts and uncles to my birthday party that I want him to throw for me! I plan to live much better in my 40's than I did in my 30's just wasting away getting more and more unhealthy.

Valerie: You have to try an eliptical It kicks my big ole butt! I really like it though. It is fun to me.

Garnet: One thing I noticed after not having to go to the hospital for a lonnnnng time then having to go in the emergency room for some stupid disease I got from drinking the city water where I lived... I had to be in the hospital for a few days for rehydration and potasium but, The bed seemed to have shrunk since the last time I was there before I got fat... lol. It freaked me out. Weird things you don't think about and very good reasons to get healthy.

Nuthinfanci: Welcome. We are so happy that you have decided to join us in our journey to health.

Julee: Congrats on your "kids" doing well on their play. Sounds like you are a wonderful leader to them and they are very lucky to have you!

Teahoney: you go girl. Walkilng all that way. Man. You will be ready to sell your car if you keep that up.

Kayley: have fun at your concert.

Ammi: I hope that you get to the bottom of your problem and that it is not a serious one!

Everyone else: be blessed and forgive me for not addressing everyone.
Blessing to you all,
Dogpal

Hello All,

Well it's 8.19 in the morning on Friday here, and I have the Commonwealth Games on, the womens diving is on, they are on the 3 metre spring boards. I am glad I can touch type. I can carry on paying attention to the dives as well as catch up on posts here :lol:

Tracey - good for you for walking to your appt and back, it feels good to actually walk and know that you are burning off calories/points.

Amy - I am glad that you found out that you have flu rather than something more serious. But flu is pretty bad, so I would never say that you 'only' have flu. It is awful that you can't be sick without worrying about getting in trouble for taking time off. I wish I had lots of money, I would start my own business and be the best employer ever!!

Thanks, I know what you mean about not wanting to find something serious wrong with me, but at the same time, kind of wanting there to be at least a little something wrong that will explain the lack of weight loss. If the blood work comes back clear I will be at a loss. I can't do more than I already am doing, and the diet has worked for me in the past, so why wouldn't it be working for me now? Who knows, maybe they will offer me WLS, but offer it or not I shall be saying a loud, resounding NO thank you!

I wouldn't worry too much about what your doctors scales said, do what you said, and wait to see what the scales you normally weigh on say. I actually love my doctors scales. I got on them yesterday and they said I am 5 lbs lighter than my scales at home lol!

Good on you for having a BK treat, I think if we don't let ourselves have treats like that now and then regardless of if we count the points or not then we won't last the course of the diet because one day we will get so resentful at missing out that we just say, blow it, and start pigging out.

Lilion - so glad to hear that life does begin at 40, and I am with you all the way, kicking and screaming as the years go on. Daren and I had a compliment the other day. We had an engineer come out to sort out a problem with our Internet and he was talking like he was much older than us at 40. Daren has his hair spiked, and half the time I have mine back in a head band, not exactly hair styles for a 37 and 38 year old, so they must make us look young lol. I know Daren has no intention of changing his hair style, and me, well as long as my hair is long enough to go in my face I will always shove it away with a head band, so we will probably look the same but with just a few more wrinkles when we are pensioners LOL.

Zelma - the best part about being in a down mood is that soon enough the mood should change and everything in the garden will seem rosy again. Look after yourself and I hope you will have a wonderful weekend.

Luan - do you show any of the other signs of a thyroid problem, like the tiredness all the time, depression, dry hair and skin? I think if you have more than one of the symptoms it might be worth paying to see a doctor about it.

That is brilliant that you will be spending such a wonderful couple of weeks in Australia, how exciting. Will you be in Sydney for New Years Eve? They really know how to throw a party. If you get chance when you are in NSW you should go to Katoomba in the Blue Mountains, I know they have a great Travellers Hostel there. I used to live in Katoomba and it's a truly beautiful place and well worth a visit.

As for the layover in Fiji. I have been there a few times in my childhood. I don't remember much about it, it was part of a cruise around the islands. I do remember the photos mum has though, and the place is really gorgeous. I wish I was going with you!!

Kayley - sounds like you are mega excited about meeting your fave band. I hope you have a brilliant time and that they live up to all your expectations.

Garnetfairy - I hear you on the vampire thing lol, I always said I should have been one too. I have always been a night person, I come to life at midnight and prefer to sleep in the day. Of course right now I could sleep 24/7, it is awful to want to just go to bed and not get up again. I always said if I could hibernate and wake up thin and well I would do it. Why can't I be a bear?

Well done you for making that great food choice when you could have had a burger and fries. You should be so proud of yourself :carrot:

Countess - they say that although there are advantages to being your own boss there are also some disadvantages, and I guess you are proof of that. I hope you do manage to schedule some more 'you' time in your work day, and that you do manage to go to the movies with your hubby on Sunday. What will you be seeing?

Valerie - I love that particular photo of me because it is so deceiving lol. I was actually in a lot of pain that day but I wasn't going to let it spoil my hubby's birthday, so I put that big smile on my face and am pleased that it was so convincing. I can't wait until the day I genuinely feel happy and energetic again. Being this size doesn't help, that in itself makes me feel like an old woman. I know it won't be nice to have a thyroid problem, but it would be such a relief to know that given meds I could start getting back to my old self. Perhaps I haven't been depressed all this time through my surgery, perhaps it's all been linked to my thyroid. If it isn't, I know I will be disappointed, but I WILL find out why I am not losing weight and why I am so tired, one way or another!

LOL about your puppy actually being asleep. Sounds like life is never dull at home. What happens with the puppy when you are on the road? When will you be travelling again?

Brenda - I would love to take part in that relay, it sounds like so much fun, and all in the name of charity, what could be better. I hope you will have a great time and that the walk won't be too painful on the feet!

As for your question on craving things you normally wouldn't when you are dieting. Yes! I normally have a really sweet tooth, but the minute I diet I don't crave chocolate I start to crave savoury food especially dip and crackers. Yum!! It's not quite so bad as your craing for peanut butter when you used to hate it, but it's till unusual.

Wyllen - believe me if there was a way to get that Cheesecake via the post Daren would jump at the chance lol. Never mind, it will just be something else to look forward to when we get to go back to Vegas! Last time I was there I wasn't well and couldn't enjoy all that America has to offer food ways, so if we do holiday there again I am going to lose at least 14 lbs just so I can gain it again while I am there :lol:

Thanks for the good luck with my blood work, I will email you to let you know the results, that way we will both see if your email address still accepts emails!

I haven't exercised for a while now, so am not doing my bit for the group total. I will start again on Monday, so you will see me on the exercise thread then :D

Julee - so glad to hear that opening night was a success, it's wonderful that all that hard work paid off. Hope you got a good night's sleep and are feeling less pooped now!

Nuthinfanci - :welcome: glad to have you here. Sorry that your body decided to kick you into touch with regard to realising you need to lose some weight. You have made a good start losing that 12 lbs and I am sure before long you won't be needing that BP medication anymore because you will be getting much healthier as the weight comes off.

I started my diet because my body complained too much too. Everything was a huge effort, everything hurt and I realised I am so disabled in a lot of ways because of my size. Unfortunately since realising that I haven't been able to lose any weight, well I lost 11 lbs, but gained it back for what seems like no reason at all. So I still have a LONG way to go until I feel semi human again.

Sharon - will be on MSN this afternoon for sure. Hope to catch you for a chat.

Amber - got your PM, and sent one back. Hope to chat with you soon too.

Annie - thank you, I hope I get some sort of answer to why I am not losing weight too. I know my body and I know that I can normally lose at least 28 lbs in the amount of time that I have now ended up losing nothing. Something isn't right and if it isn't my thyroid then it's something else, and I am determined to get to the bottom of it.

So you will be 40 this year, Lilion does make it sound great, so I too am looking forward to joining the club. My mum celebrated her 40th by taking us all on our first ever cruise. So I think for her she was determined that her life would start at 40! What will you be doing to celebrate the day?

Time for me to get a nice big cold glass of water and then give my full concentration to the diving. It's getting good now. Have a good day all, and a great weekend. And for all the mum's in the UK, I hope you have a good Mothers day and get spoilt rotten :D

Hugs,

Ammi :grouphug:

Nuthin fancy:welcome3:
Garnet, I never think your posts are bad enough to ostrasise you, you silly woman!!!! :hug: I feel exactly the same about myself and my posts. Its great to know that other people feel the same, :o :?: in a strange way, you know what I mean. I often don't want to leave the house, I have to take my older son to school so there's no choice there. But you are not alone!:hug:
Brenda, are you the boss' pet? ;) they are lucky to have you, so are we.:hug:
Kayley, hope you enjoy the concert(?) sorry about the jeans, if you think they sound nice and will still fit you (you will be weighing in at 200ish very soon the way you are going!:carrot: )I will post them to you anyway, if you don't like them I'll take the postage as a loss and you can pass them on to someone else. PM me or email your address if you want them.
I forgot what else I wanted to say, but have no time to check back, Ammi, hope your results explain your stupid gains!:hug:
Gotta go and clean the guest bathroom for my parents and do a last check that everything is tidy-ish. Violet, get better soon:hug: . Everyone else :grouphug: :balloons: and keep OP.
xxxsharon:cb:

Valerie - i would be interested in hooking your neice up with my friend thats going to ghana for her study aborad. im sure she would be a wealth of information. I can pass on Kelly's email to you if your neice would be interested in talking to her :)

Garnet - individuals are SO much better. they look more natural and you can barely feel them. i HATE strip ones.

dogpal - im super excited to go. and its gonna be summer time when were there. our layover would be 17 hours if we go through fiji.

julee - im so glad your opening night was a success! congrats!!

ok im off to bed. night all

Catherine,
:balloons:
Fabulous birthday wishes to the one who inspires us all, the one who has incredible knowledge and insight into many of the struggles we face, the one who writes with intention yet with a unique and grabbing style, and, most importantly, the one we all love and are always happy to hear from! :gift: Happy Birthday to our dear hippyvanlady! :woo:

OOOoooo Its Catherine's Birthday??? Yeah!!!!!!! All my best and I hope your new hubby helps to make it FANTASTIC for you!!!! Happy Birthday to You!!!

Dogpal: I'm a New Yorker and as a true NYer, I don't own a car or even have a license but normally I would have taken the bus or even a cab if I had the money. But I'm really trying to push myself to walk more.

I'll be back later to post more.

Garnet – If you feel your life is boring, is there something you can think of that would spice it up? Perhaps something to take your mind off of the weight loss – a hobby in a different area maybe? Oh – and I just want to give you a friendly smack for your comment – “I am just glad I am tolerated at all for the most part”. Cut that out girl! We all bring something different to the table which makes this place so great. We all have certain similarities having lived with the weight, but then we are all different enough to have different perspectives. Variety is the spice of life!

Amy – Sorry to hear you are so sick – and dealing with the stress of work being a bunch of :censored: about it. :hug:

Countess – Having worked for a few small businesses with individual owners I always laugh at people who think that starting their own business means they will have lots of time. You get the flexibility (no one telling you when to be there) but you have to do so much of the work and it is so hard to take time off. Hope you find some time to do some nice things for yourself.

Valerie – What is this 90-minute class you are going to? That sounds totally killer!

Brenda – Hopefully you survive your crazy week without too much stress. The trouble with raising your own bar like that is that now everyone expects that from you all the time.

Luan – How did I miss that you are going to Australia! That is too cool – and Fiji too. My company’s head offices are in Sydney and I am hoping that someday they will want to fly me over there for some reason (although I am not holding my breath).

Wyllen – I will put in a plug for the exercise thread too. It is so cool to have somewhere to come and record what you have done – I love it! It has really helped me to feel accountable.

Julee – Glad to hear your opening night went so well. That is fantastic that the junk food wasn’t appealing. It is so cool to find out our tastes have changed.

Nuthinfanci – :welcome3: We are the same age and currently the same weight. I have the same problem with my legs swelling. It was one of the things that pushed me to realize I needed to do something about my weight. I started to feel like I was cutting off my own circulation – which was scary as ****. I hope your schedule gets back to normal soon, and never worry about rambling on.

Dogpal – I had also noticed you hadn’t been around. You totally inspire me with the elliptical. You go girl!!

Ammi – I am glad your doctor decided to do all those tests. Not that I hope they find something wrong with you, but it would be good to find out if there is something inhibiting your loss. It pains me to hear that you haven’t been feeling that great.

Sharon – I know what you mean about not wanting to leave the house. There are often weekends that I don’t get out at all. Of course I have to go to work every day so I have no choice on the weekdays.

Jill – Congrats on it being the last day. That must feel great. Are they giving you a going away party or anything?

Amber, 2LosinIt, Crock, Catherine, Vicki, LAnne, Brandnewme, MariaLucia and any one else I missed hope all is well!

My BF wanted my car today (I have an larger vehicle) to haul some computer equipment that they are giving away at the place he is working. First – the last thing we need is more computer equipment. Our entire garage is filled with stuff he has gotten for free and is now just taking up space. Secondly, he had to drop me off at work at 6:30 in the morning in order to get to work on time. I am NOT a morning person. So I have used the time wisely and posted here!

I will have the weekend to myself because my BF has to work both days. He is in the middle of a huge storage migration project (he is in IT) and has to work on off business hours. I would like to do something special – give me some real me time. Not sure what that will be yet. I am definitely glad it is Friday!

Happy Birthday Catherine!!!!! :woo:

Hello My Little Chicks!

I really must rush today, so only a few little notes!

Catherine! :hb: HAPPY BIRTHDAY :woo: Hope it's your happiest yet!

Nuthinfanci : :welcome2: I look forward to hearing more from you!

Amy: I'm so sorry that you are so ill! I HATE being sick - and the flu is one of the worst! Relax, rest, drink plenty of fluids, eat chicken soup! :hug:

Garnet: Don't be silly - we LOVE you! :hug:

Zelma: Hope you feel better too! :hug:

Okay, a few hugs given, but not enough! I love reading all the posts on this thread...and would like to chat a bit...but duty calls! You all have a great day! Onward and Downward Ladies! :D

Happy Birthday Catherine!!!! :cheers: :woo: :dancer:

You inspire me beyond words.

Yes, it is my birthday. I'm 44, but feeling younger everyday. Himself already gave me my birthday present this morning. I made walnut pineapple pancakes this morning. I'm going to have a quiet day at home, and may even put my feet up for awhile. Our church is having a Lenten fish dinner tonight, but I'm pretty sure it will be fish and chips or fish sticks type of thing, so we aren't going. I'm defrosting tofu dogs instead. I'm going to listen to a baseball game over the internet and wait for the mail. I'm waiting for a part for my sewing machine. It got damaged in the move, and since it is a 30 year old machine, they couldn't get the part for me, so I finally found a used one in England. This may not make much sense, but my sewing machine was like my best friend for a long time. I can't wait to get it back. I also signed up for the local basset hound rescue. I'm not ready to raise a puppy, but I'm an experienced foster mom. I feel like I have regressed on my diet. I'm trying to bring my new husband along a step at a time to get to the point that I am at. I am maintaining, he is losing. He has never eaten a balanced, healthy diet in his life, and his body is freaking out. He is craving salmon and vegetables now, and has so much more energy that he is actually scaring his family. One sister actually said that she would rather he get diabetes if it meant he'd go back to his old self. It's like the first person in a family to get sober, or quit smoking. He has upset their applecart. It is all so eerily familiar to me. I went through the same thing 4 years ago. Getting healthy has to touch every part of your life, if we are to be successful. Without surgery, weight loss maintainers are only 2%. I will be one of that 2% even if it costs me everything else.

nancy ~ I don't mind as I only do this job for about 12 weeks per year. I figure if I only have to actually "bust my butt" for 3 months and in my other position I can slack a bit more, then I have a pretty good work life. I switch bosses about 3 times per year unfortunately so I seem to always be prooving myself to someone new.... someday I hope to actually BE recognized! *L*

Brenda :wave:

Still here, seems the tempo is getting better on the board,, I am glad to see that happening, I am almost done with my family Movie, it is almost one hour long, It is My Mothers side, BIG FAMILY, not close at all to my Fathers side, just one Uncle I like, So there is no Movie in that sides future,,LOL..
OP still,,, Have not had Oatmeal all week, I did notice, however, that when I do eat Oatmeal, It satifies me longer , than eggs and bacon, Perhaps next week I will go back to the Oatmeal.. just got burnt out...... Take Care All

I just re-read my post and realized when I transferred it from Word to here that I cut off a bunch of them! Thank goodness for the undo button in Word, because I had also deleted them thinking I had posted! :dizzy:

Lillion – I found my local SCA’s website. The thing is I mentioned it to my BF and he is totally not interested. He thinks it is kind of silly. Oh well – I just need to gather up the courage to go by myself. I used to do things like that all the time, and I don’t know what I have to be worried about. I have a lot of insecurities about not knowing things. Once I know something I am usually fine.

Kirsikka – I know it is really hard, but our self-talk is SO important. Sometimes, even if you don’t feel it, it is good to try and talk positive. You are not worthless! If nothing else (which there is a whole lot else!) you are a mom and you are the center of your son’s world. I lost my mother at the age of 15 and I can tell you that nothing can replace a mother. Try to see yourself through your son’s eyes and see how important you are!

Tracey – Your walks are so inspiring! I am a wuss about walking outside when it is still so cold.

Melinda – I also write in Word and paste in my posts. Part of the reason for that is that I type too fast for my brain and spell all kinds of stuff wrong. I need the spell check!

Zelma – I often wonder about how losing weight effects us hormonally since fat is a hormonally active tissue. I think it is one of those things that affect us way more than we realize. Perhaps part of your funk has to do with your hormone levels balancing out. Whatever it is, I hope you feel right as rain again soon. :)

Kayley – That is so cool that you will be meeting your favorite band. Also, I just noticed in your signature that you are about to meet your March exercise goal. Way to go!!

phew..... sis in law's wedding invitations are complete..... now what should I work on?.....supper is in the oven for steven.... (hard to cook for him when it has to be something he can re-heat) and I am ready for a nap but I shall plug on.....

Just a quick post- I actully had typed a couple long post earlier in the week, but then something would happen to side track me & I'd forget to post them :o

I don't know if I getting hit with allergies, migraines or just the general ups & downs with the rest of my health problems or even something else like a flu bug, but the last few days have been misserable with not feeling good, headaches, more nausea then usual & all. Today I can hardly stand the smell of anything & just about everything I eat doesn't taste right :( I think I'm going to take it easy for a couple days & see how things go. I was suppose to go into Grand Rapids today to pick up some stuff from one of my doctors offices & run errands/shop, but I think I'll wait until Monday...driving 45 miles to get there just doesn't sound like fun right now & the drive home would be even worse. I hate that I can't keep exercising- I had to take it easy earlier in the week because my kneecap decided to try to dislocate, so it needed a few days to heal up & now this- UGHHHHHH!

Hello gals! :_)

Garnet – Yes, I agree, having a hobby is great for taking away the boredom. I used to crochet ALOT, then my wrists started hurting and now I'm a sewing fiend. It feels good to have something that is mine, that I get to do alone or with others, and that is a creative outlet. If you're intrigued by crafting of one sort or another, the local crafts stores usually have beginner classes. The worst that can happen is that you take mosaic and you hate it - still, it gets you out of the house and thinking in a different way.

You said it sister! My g/f asked me to come work for her last year cuz she was expanding her biz and needed support on the business management side. So, I closed down my business and now work at helping her grow hers. It's great - I get to feel the challenges of growing something while only working 40-hours per week. I mostly took her job offer cuz I NEEDED to have time to focus on losing weight and this is a great opportunity for me to do it. There is no way I would have done it had I been working the same hours I was working.

She, on the other hand, works ALL THE TIME. Regularly 14-15 hours three days a week and all day Saturday plus regular 8 hours daily two days a week. It's a hard pace to keep, but when you've got overhead, employees, and huge amounts of work coming your way...well, you have to! I'm there to help her get to a point where she isn't working these crazy hours...but I'm sure it will be a long time before she can work less.

Wyllen, I too LOVE the exercise thread. This month I set myself a goal of working out 1,000 minutes. I'm right on target and I'm close to meeting my goal. Yesterday I went through my exercise log books from last year (yeah, I'm anal like that!). The month I worked out the most last year was only 400 minutes. I'm sure if it weren't for the thread, I wouldn't have challenged myself as much this month. :-) Oh, and you guys should SEE the challenge I'm putting together for April! Hehehe, I think my inner sadist is coming out! LOL

Nuthinfanci - Welcome! Health brought me here too. I hurt by ankle bad three years ago and went from being a fat sortta-kinda-fit person to a fat very-unfit person since I couldn't walk more than half a block. My quality of life changed COMPLETELY for the worse. Then my stubborn Taurian nature kicked in and I vowed not ever to let myself risk my mobility like that. My goal is to walk into my 40's (I'll be 36 this year) as a strong, fit, healthy person. Hope your health inspires you to move forward, taking one step at a time. We're all here to support you! ;-)

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Originally Posted by NotTheCheat I will have the weekend to myself because my BF has to work both days. He is in the middle of a huge storage migration project (he is in IT) and has to work on off business hours. I would like to do something special – give me some real me time. Not sure what that will be yet. I am definitely glad it is Friday!

Oh, oh, oh! Do what I do - give yourself a facial!!!! All you need is a pot with water and a towel for the steam bath, and some kitchen ingredients - depending on the type of skin you have. I make myself masks using all sorts of things - oatmeal, yogurt, honey, avocado, sugar, egg whites, milk. You name it! I LOVE pampering myself...it feels decadent! If you want recipes for different masks, just let me know! :-)

As for me, I'm PMSing something BAD this week. I've been feeling sad, reclusive, and angry - not a good combination. I haven't been eating stellarly, but I'm not upset about it. Every day gets better, and closer to ToM.

And, despite it all, I've managed to lose weight - though I don't know how much. My scale at home says I now weigh 338 or so, which is a 2lb loss but that is not my official scale. I missed my WI at weight watchers yesterday cuz like many of you here, I just didn't want to leave the house. I took myself to work, but that's it.

I don't do the WW program, mind you, but I like having the accountability and the meetings and the regular weigh-ins. I was considering going to a meeting tomorrow morning to get weighed and get my 20lb award. I'm hella curious as to how much weight I've lost, so I'll probably go after my workout.

So that's my news. I hope everyone here has a good day!

MariaLucia - If you aren't following Weight Watchers but like meetings, you might consider TOPS. It is similar, but WAY less expensive. I think Jill goes there - not sure about any one else. It isn't convenient for me, but you might want to check out if they have one in your area.

The facial is a good idea. I just wish I had one of those nice big tubs so I could have a nice soak too. Mine is normal size and I'm not. :)

Christine - Sorry to hear you aren't feeling well. 45 miles is an awful long way to have to drive - I am guessing that doctor is a specialist.

I am trying to be motivated to work, but it isn't working. I am all caught up with everything except filing, and I HATE filing.

Happy Birthday!

YEAH, that's exactly the way I feel. NOTHING, absolutely NOTHING is more important than my health, eating right and exercise. If things in my life get in the way of that, then those things gotta go!

Hope you enjoy your day and you get to "put your feet up" for a long, restful while! :-)

I had a long post planned, but now have no time to write it. Just a quick post to say Happy Birthday Catherine, and I so admire your take no prisoners attitude. You are helping restore my attitude -- I've just been going through the motions the past week or two and want to get my can do attitude back. I think that attitude is what has helped me be successful so far and think it's the key.

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Garnet, I’m going to weigh in on Saturday morning. I didn’t move my ticker back up, but I was back up to 289 when I got home last Saturday. I told myself that TOM and a high sodium intake were to blame, but so far I’m only back down to 285. When I officially WI tomorrow I’ll set my ticker wherever I must, but no fear, I’m not sneaking up on you yet… although I’m feeling renewed after 4 of those killer workout classes. I’m very proud of myself for doing that well with them. Boy will I miss it back on the road, and boy, will it be tough again to restart next time I’m home. *** That’s great that you’re making good choices at the fast food joints. I know how hard that is, especially when you’re hungry. More than once hunger has overcome reason and later I was asking myself “WHY did I do that?!” I’m glad you were victorious!

Wyllenn, I’m doing exactly as you suggested: writing in Word so I won’t lose my post. Besides, it will be easier to compose when the threads change, too. *** The exercise thread has worked out to be a great success! I’m so glad you thought of it and are kind enough to keep it going!! I’m glad also that your own exercise is back on track!

Julee, Fantastic that the show went well and great as well that the half-time junk food wasn’t appealing!! I hope the rest of your weekend goes every bit as well!

NuthinFanci, WELCOME! Glad to have you! You mentioned your BP being a problem and I can relate. Last May mine was about 170/114 and my weight was 335-340. Just losing the first 30 pounds and starting to walk changed everything for me – I could wear my wedding ring again, I felt worlds better, and my BP dropped to almost normal. At Thanksgiving it was down to 126/76! If I hadn’t gotten it down I would have had to go on meds, too, or lose my license, and since I drive for a living, that wasn’t a happy thought. O course, dying young wasn’t a happy thought either. You’re off to a great start!! Keep it up.

Dogpal, You have such a great attitude about your 40’s. A new decade is kind of like a fresh start I guess. Tell you what, I’m scared to death to greet my 50’s as I am now. I wanna be around a long time yet, and I figure every workout adds a couple days that I can stick around and party!

Ammi, I, too , hope you can get the thyroid issue settled once and for all and find all the answers you need. *** As for Simon puppy, he travels on the road with us. Having TWO dogs in the truck is really a trip, but at least he’s little. He’s brought out the puppy in my 6 year old and it’s wonderful watching them wrestle together! We’re leaving early Monday, with puppies aboard.

Luan, Lemme just check and see where my niece, Christy, is. I’m not sure exactly when she and my nephew were leaving for Ghana, or whether she’s on-line there. I’ll get right back to you on it!! I can’t even tell you how many times she’s been over there or for how long, so I’m sure she could help and would be glad to. I don’t actually have Christy’s email addy since mostly I just talk to her mom – my sis.

Jill, Woo-Hoo!! Congrats on the job change and I hope the new one is everything you could wish for!! … that’s the miserable thing about self-employment: you can’t quit and they just won’t fire ya. At least one of us is starting fresh!!

Catherine!! Happy, HAPPY birthday!!! And many happy & healthy returns!!!

Teahoney, Are you a native NYer or did you move there because you liked it? I used to live in a little town at the other end of the state – Buffalo – and did the no car/no license thing there until I was 29. Who knew I’d end up driving for a living?? Amazing place, the Big Apple.

Nancy, I’ve seen flyers for this workout around, and I don’t know why I never checked it out before. Never had the guts or determination I guess. But Monday night I was so lazy that I went & got Pizza for DH’s dinner (No place delivers out here) and they had flyers for this workout. So Tuesday morning I went. I’m just amazed at how nice everybody has been. As we all know at this size you can get some “hey, what’s with the FAT lady?” sort of looks and sometimes we feel we don’t belong, especially when we can’t keep up (which I can’t.) But all I feel there is determined to do better. It’s not where your at, I guess, it’s what you’re doing about it! The instructor, who is WONderful, is certified through the Aerobics Fitness Assoc. of America. Sorry if I already mentioned it on this board, but I wonder if they might have lists of instructors that hold local classes other places if people were interested. This class includes elements of kick-boxing and it’s fun, but it’s tough. You can modify any moves that are too tough and I’m not the only one that does. After about 65 minutes of aerobics there’s about 25 minutes of ab work, leg lifts, etc., on a floor mat. If there are ANY muscles that she doesn’t get to, I have no idea where they could possibly be, cuz honey, I can feel it EVERYWHERE. I’ve done it FOUR days in a row and I’m very proud of myself! *** As for going to SCA, suck it up and GO girl. There will be plenty of other “silly” people there having FUN doing what you want to have fun doing!!

HippyVanLady wrote: “Without surgery, weight loss maintainers are only 2%. I will be one of that 2% even if it costs me everything else.”
Catherine, Once again, you humble me. Your dedication, determination and fire are an example to follow. Your stories are perceptive and so relative to what most of us face. Funny how those who should love us and support us are the first to want to hold us back to their level. *** I have an old Singer machine that was old when my mother used it when I was a child. Had a fancier new one once, but the old singer is my old friend. I hope your machine is back in order soon. Cool about being a basset foster mom. Aren’t pooches wonderous!?

Brenda, If you change bosses that often, maybe they should just make YOU the boss?

Crock, The movie idea sounds cool. Something really neat for the next generation, and the next!

Christine, I sure hope you feel better! It's terrible when you "in the groove" and something like an injury comes along to sideline you. Being sick on top of it is awful.

ThisGirlsLosin, I wish you and Nancy and some of the others could talk sense into my husband. A friend of his is an Amway muckity-muck and has him convinced that the only way a self-respecting man goes is Self-Employed and that having a "JOB" is shameful. For years we had no insurance. We still have no time and no money. I Haaaate it. *** Congrats on the loss this week!! Sounds like YOU've earned one of those facials! A huge congrats on the terrific exercise accomplishments, too!!!

“Whoever said you can’t buy happiness forgot about puppies.”
– Gene Hill

Lilion--I just now noticed that your name only has one "L" in it. Derrr! Ha! :doh: I'm glad to hear someone else concurr w/the whole "eat anything you want as long as you count the points". My sister always tells me I shouldnt do that and I'm like "Why? I have the points for it!". Thanks for the well-wishes on my flu. My neck is clear of black swelling so I'm pretty sure its not Captain Trips after all. Imagine that :rofl: ?

Zelma--I dont think you could make anyone cry, not even a little kid--you are too sweet :flow2: ! We all need to vent sometimes, that's what this place is here for (I hope--that's what I've been using it for! :lol: ). I'm glad to hear you are feeling a little better--hopefully TOM doesnt kick your butt too much! :hug: I also wish you :goodluck: on your continued weight loss journey. You've come so far, it is so awesome!

Kayley--I am so excited for you to meet your fav band! Yeah! You rock out, grrrrl! :yes:

Garnet--Oh, I understand now on the apple baker :D . Great job on the NSV! Yeah! I'm glad your shoulder is feeling better! I hear you on being afraid of doing something wrong. I am so afraid that because I have missed this entire week of excercise that I am going to end up negating everything I've done. I wish food werent such a big part of my life, too. I just keep telling myself "you are in control, NOT food". BUT that only works for so long, I know :halfempty . :bravo: on the 2 excercise videos! I dont think you needed the gym after that! Hey, maybe your son will surprise you and go w/you, who knows ;) ? And I really enjoy reading your posts--dont EVER think you are just simply "tolerated" :nono: !!

Countess--I'm sorry to hear you've been so swamped lately, but I guess, like you said, thats better than wondering where your next paycheck is coming from. Sometimes I wish I were self-employed but I know its not all hearts and flowers all the time. Here's hoping you are able to schedule some "down time" in the future :hat: .

Valerie--Thanks for mentioning the sodium in fast food! That's something I never think about, which I really should because I DO retain water pretty magnificently sometimes. Ha, I love hearing your pets stories! Sometimes its good that God made 'em so cute, or else....:lol3: ! BTW--LOVE the new avater! It's really cool and I LOVE unicorns! Have you ever seen the movie "Legend"? Great movie + young, hot, pre-crazy :crazy: Tom Cruise! BTW--I LOVE your quote!

Brenda M--The relay sounds AWESOME!! Yeah, girl--you go get yourself pampered, let hubby walk if HE wants to :D ! Sounds like you are kicking butt at your job, too and, while the sense of accomplishment is nice, you are right--you do have to be careful not to burn yourself out. The craving thing is weird! I've never really craved anything like that, hmmm :chin: .

wyllenn--Thanks for suggesting the excercise thread, I think I'll take you up on that! Your job sounds so facinating, I would LOVE it if you went on about it all day :love: ! I'm glad to hear you are moving past the cheesecake and having a good day today. Great job getting back on track w/excercise! Its so hard to get back on track sometimes, but you DID IT! Good for you, yeah :cb: !! Oh, and I'm glad others can relate on the scale thing! I'll be sure and let everyone know what the Curves scale says, I cant wait but am also nervous! Oh well, it's just a number, right? Right???? :rolleyes:

Julee--Glad to hear opening night went well! Good for you for letting yourself have some "down time". You cant be everything to everybody and, like you said, you'll be there for the cast party.

Nuthinfanci--:wel3fc: !! 12 lbs lost is pretty fancy to me! :bravo: :cp: :cb: !! I'm glad you decided to post, I'll be sure and check out your profile. Sounds like you've been doing pretty well excercising and making better food choices. We all have to live w/our eating plans so sometimes I wonder if just making smarter decisions instead of being on an exact "plan" isnt the best idea. I'd hate working overnights! I did it for a while and it really messed me up. Glad to hear things will be back to normal for you soon.

Dogpal--I like WW so much because it really gives you a lot of flexibility. I do Points, not Core, and I really like knowing that I can pretty much eat anything as long as I stay w/in my daily points and follow the health guidelines. I also appreciate having the extra 35 pts/wk to use as I please. I use them all every week, this way I dont feel like "I can NEVER have (insert favorite food here) EVER again!". If I felt that way I would definitely not be able to stick w/it.

Ammi--I hope you enjoyed watching the diving. I love watching that stuff, too! "Blow it"--I really like that term! I think I'll start saying that! We Americans dont speak nearly as eloquently as our brothers and sisters across the sea :D . "Blow it" sounds much better than "F- it"!! I certainly hope you can figure out something w/your weight loss struggles. Who knows, it could be something so simple that could make all the difference! I really hope so :^: ! Oh, and I would sure love your Dr's scale too! My Dr needs to get one of those :lol3: ! Yes, you should start your own business and employ me to post on 3FC. That could be my job--just writing lots of posts and I get a bonus for using lots of smilies :cool: ! Although if that were the case you may go bankrupt paying Sharon :rofl: !

Jill--HOORAY for your new job! I am so envious :p !!

Catherine--Happy Birthday!! Wooohooo YEAH! :woo: :balloons: :cheers: :encore: :gift: :joker: What kind of tofu dogs do you like? I like the Smart Dogs and the Tofu Dogs brands. I had this brand called Tofu Pups once and I quickly found out why they were so cheap--UG!! Orange and mushy and totally gross! I concur on the weight loss thing. Your resolve is awesome! Good for your hubby, working to get healthy, etc. It can be difficult in a family of big people, I speak from experience there. Fostering puppies sounds really fun, and that is such an awesome service to provide. You are such a caring person! I hope you have a nice relaxing day and are able to get your sewing machine up and running soon!

Crockett--What plan are you on? Now I am craving oatmeal! Your family movie sounds like its turning out pretty cool. Are you doing it for anything specific (did I miss that?)?

Christine--I'm sorry to hear you arent feeling well. I agree driving sounds like the worst when you are naseuous. Take it easy, girl! Cut yourself some slack and RELAX! :beach:

Nancy--:thanks: for your well-wishes on my illness, I appreciate it! Sorry you had to be at work so early! I am not a morning person either! :coffee:

MariaLucia--:thanks: for the at-home-facial tips! Any type of pampering (that is cheap to boot!) is alright w/me! And 20 lbs lost?!?! That is awesome!! Keep it up, girl! :balloons: I'm sorry that you have been feeling crappy :( . I think a lot of us are in the same boat on that. TOM is SO much fun....:rolleyes:


As for me, I'm still sick. I dont feel any better than yesterday and it is starting to really piss me off :stars: . Although, I DID just hear my favorite Grateful Dead song "Friend of the Devil" on the radio so I am in a little better mood :D .

I went into work today and was only able to stay till 10:45 (I start at 9:30 :( ). My boss said to me "Amy, are you well?" I said "No, actually I'm not. I shouldn't even be here but I was afraid I'd be in trouble. I'm barely functional at my job today, but I didn't want you to think I was just calling in sick because it was a Friday" :mad: .

He said if I had just called in today he would've just counted it as 1 absence because you can miss 3 days in a row and, as long as you have a Dr's note, its just 1 absence. UG!! :tantrum: I knew that's the way it used to be but I thought they had changed it a while back. It turns out it was still the same policy because they couldn't get clearance thru the union to change it back when they wanted to the first time. And this new policy doesn't go into effect till 4/1. ARG!!! :mad:

So I killed myself trying to come in today for nothing! I got up and showered and ate breakfast and even got to work 15 min early so I wouldn't have to rush getting my computer pulled up and everything. Even so, I could barely function. Customers would say things to me and I'd have to say "I'm sorry, what did you say?" I just couldn't hack it. I sat there like a zombie. Finally I just told my boss "I have to go home, I'm sorry. I tried and I just cant do it. I need rest. I'm really sick". He said he thought that was the best thing to do, just get rested and get over this crap.

BUT get this--since I came in today now it is going to count as TWO absences instead of just 1. If I wouldn't have even tried to come in today it would've just count as ONE. How messed up is that???? But now since I had an absence AND left my shift early, it's an absence for each. Grrr...I am so frustrated :bomb: ! Its not my boss--while I really don't like him, I really do think that he understood and didn't just think "oh, she wants to get off early because its Friday". But he has to go by the rules and has to treat it the same whether he respects my effort for trying to come today or not. They always say it'll be "looked at differently", but on paper where it what really counts, not the way a certain person "sees it", it shows as 2 absences. UG!!

Oh, and about my quote in my signature: I dont know where it came from, Nat says all the time. He heard it on a movie and has no idea who said it originally. NKC is Nat's initials :D . We kinda have this joke between us when we send emails back and forth at work, he will sign his "NKC" or "NKC III" even though he is NOT a "III" or even a Jr :lol: , and doesnt need to sign it because I know its from him! He also signs NKC and then like his employee number or his ID # from college...we are a little strange, I know...:crazy:

Amy: Don't you know your Dickens? Your quote is from A Christmas Carol! Marley says it to Scrooge! :D

I found this on Kitchen Garden International website. They did not know the source of the orgininal. I thought it might be relevant!

In the beginning, there was broccoli


In the beginning, God created the Heavens and the Earth and populated the Earth with broccoli, cauliflower, and spinach, green and yellow and red vegetables of all kinds, so Man and Woman would live long and healthy lives.

Then, using God's great gifts, Satan created Ben and Jerry's Ice Cream and Krispy Creme Donuts. And Satan said, "You want chocolate with that?" And Man said, "Yes!" and Woman said, "and as long as you're at it, add some sprinkles." And they gained 10 pounds. And Satan smiled.

And God created the healthful yogurt that Woman might keep the figure that Man found so fair. And Satan brought forth white flour from the wheat, and sugar from the cane and combined them. And Woman went from size 6 to size 14.

So God said, "Try my fresh green salad." And Satan presented Thousand-Island Dressing, buttery croûtons and garlic toast on the side. And Man and Woman unfastened their belts following the repast.

God then said, "I have sent you heart-healthy vegetables and olive oil in which to cook them." And Satan brought forth deep-fried fish and chicken-fried steak so big it needed its own platter. And Man gained more weight and his cholesterol went through the roof.

God then created a light, fluffy white cake, named it "Angel Food Cake," and said, "It is good." Satan then created chocolate cake and named it "Devil's Food."

God then brought forth running shoes so that His children might lose those extra pounds. And Satan gave cable TV with a remote control so Man would not have to toil changing the channels. And Man and Woman laughed and cried before the flickering blue light and gained pounds.

Then God brought forth the potato, naturally low in fat and high in nutrition. And Satan peeled off the healthful skin and sliced the starchy center into chips and deep-fried them. And Man gained pounds.

God then gave lean beef so that Man might consume fewer calories and still satisfy his appetite. And Satan created McDonald's and its 99¢ double cheeseburger. Then said, "You want fries with that?" And Man replied, "Yes! And super-size them!" And Satan said, "It is good."

And Man went into cardiac arrest.

God sighed and created quadruple-bypass surgery.

Then Satan created HMOs....

Must run...shouldn't be here! :sssh: