well here's a kicker for ya. I beat myself up for years about my weight (never going out because I thought I was too fat) and decided to do something about it this year - so I've been really working to lose the weight. About 2 months ago I was feeling a little better about myself and decided to go out with a girlfriend. While we were waiting in line to get into a club, these guys were heckling everyone. When we stuck up for ourselves, the guy looks at me and said "Don't worry sweetie, they don't let fat girls into that club anyway." Arrrgh! I totally feel like all my negative thoughts over the past few years have been reinforced. Blech!!!

So, how did it go? Hope you had fun!

Well, I went out this weekend, but we didn't do much. It rained most of the weekend and I just felt kinda blah, like I might be getting sick. It was nice to have a weekend free with the DH, might have to do it again soon, when I am feeling better.
What a jerk! :hug: Don't let it get to you, next time have a quick comeback handy instead! Don't let it ruin your good-time.