Aww, girl, lemme tell ya--I can
definitely relate. I've been fat my whole life, pretty much gaining and gaining and gaining all throughout puberty/young adulthood, and I always dreaded going to family events and things like that where I'd have to meet up with people I hadn't seen in a while. Any time I saw family, I was
always bigger than the last time I had seen them, and I would sink into that paranoia of feeling like they were just picking me apart mentally, as if they *must* be thinking
Good god, how much bigger can she possibly GET?!?! Or worse yet, that their eyes would just kind of glaze over me with pity, like I was just a lost cause. That is never a good feeling, and I'm sorry that you're worried about having to experience it now.
BUT, something that I'm sure you already realize--they're
not going to be thinking that, or anything near it! I feel like, because we spend sooo much time thinking about our bodies, it's so easy to assume that other people are scrutinizing us in the same manner, but 99.9% of the time they are NOT. Especially when it's your friends and family that you will be seeing! Will they notice that you've gained weight? Sure, it might register in their minds, but it's not going to be the only thing they see... The thought will probably slip out of their heads immediately after, because they'll be too distracted thinking about how happy they are to get to see you and spend time with you!
You must know that they love you, and they're not looking to judge you or look down on you. If anyone does happen to say something about it (because of course, awkward/badly-mannered people
are out there
) just politely deflect the comment and try to remember that it's probably coming out of a place of genuine concern for your health/happiness, NOT a desire to hurt your feelings.
Good luck staying on track with everything in the weeks to come! We all believe in you!