[CurvaceousCutie]

my 1 guy friend that i consider my best friend, he is dating this girl and i had found out that she is cheating on him. and i ended up telling him. he was kinda relieved because he doesn't want to date her anymore. he wants to confront her about her going behind his back but he doesn't want to have it thrown back in his face cuz he had kissed another girl, but they weren't dating at the time. and u know how girls can be and turn it around so they can make it the guys fault. lol i dont know what to say to him so he can get out of it and maybe still remain friends w/ her and do it a nice fashion. any suggestions????

[raw23]

"I heard you cheated on me. It's fine because it looks like we're not that into each other. But I still really like you as a friend" (In a calm rational manner).

[bargoo]

Stay out of it.

[kittycat40]

Originally Posted by bargoo

Stay out of it.

agreed.

[junebug41]

Originally Posted by bargoo

Stay out of it.

Originally Posted by kittycat40

agreed.

This answer.

[CurvaceousCutie]

well i told him and my loyalty is to him. thats what friends are for i would want my friends to be there thru the good and the bad right???

[junebug41]

Originally Posted by CurvaceousCutie

well i told him and my loyalty is to him. thats what friends are for i would want my friends to be there thru the good and the bad right???

Well being his friend and getting in the middle of a lover's quarrel are 2 different things, I think.

[CurvaceousCutie]

its not really a lovers quarrell if he wants out and shes cheating he has a right to know, i think in my opinion. i would want to know if my bf was cheating on me wouldnt u? (as long as u had the evidence to back it up in which he does)

[Iconised Ghost]

if my best best girlfriend was being cheated on, i probably would tell her too. But why does your friend want to confront her? If its to break up with her i would suggest he just breaks up with her, and if it comes up he can say that he knows she cheated, so obviously she isnt happy and the relationship should probably end

[CurvaceousCutie]

he thinks she being a hypocrite and wants to call her on it. i told him not to mention and say i cant do this anymore i tried and i just can be with u romantically n just be honest with her. i think she wants her cake and eat it too.

[PhotoChick]

If you don't stay out of it, you'll eventually wind up losing him as a friend. It's one thing to tell him something honestly that you think he needs to know. You did that. You did your duty as a friend. Now it's time to butt out. Trust us on this one. You're just going to cause yourself a lot of grief if you stay involved.

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[Thin4Good]

Originally Posted by PhotoChick

If you don't stay out of it, you'll eventually wind up losing him as a friend. It's one thing to tell him something honestly that you think he needs to know. You did that. You did your duty as a friend. Now it's time to butt out. Trust us on this one. You're just going to cause yourself a lot of grief if you stay involved.

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ITA

[Iconised Ghost]

Originally Posted by PhotoChick

If you don't stay out of it, you'll eventually wind up losing him as a friend. It's one thing to tell him something honestly that you think he needs to know. You did that. You did your duty as a friend. Now it's time to butt out. Trust us on this one. You're just going to cause yourself a lot of grief if you stay involved.

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yes i agree with this, you've done your duty as a friend, now its up to him to do what he wants with that knowledge

[CurvaceousCutie]

ya ill be hear if he needs me nut he wanted a girls perspective on how to handle n thats all i came up with thats y i wanted ur sugg