Hey guys, I really appreciate everyone's support. I agree that he's not worth it, but I'm just SO confused. I'll admit that I'm the kind of girl that doesn't necessarily need a relationship to sleep with a guy, and when I know that it's not going to lead to anything from the get-go, I'm totally fine with that. If that makes me a whore, meh, I've got Carrie and Samantha on my side. =)

But I totally thought this was so much more. I also agree that it wasn't the brightest move inviting him into my bed the first time we met, but I definitely wanted it just as much as he did. (TMI?)

As for whether or not he was really a doctor, I totally cyber-stalked him and verified all the info that I could, and he seemed completely legit.

I'm going to see Alanis in concert tomorrow night, and I think that she'll give me the girl power boost that I need. I know he's not worth it. It's just been a whirlwind of emotions and confusion for me, and I'm so used to being single and happy, that I was just really thrown for a loop.

Again, thanks, ladies. You guys are definitely the support that I needed. Boys tend to suck in general; congrats to you guys who have found some of the good ones, and good luck to the rest of us. =)

ugh, it made me sad to read this. bc i've been in this position so many times. he's prolly just a jerk to be honest. whether its your weight or it isnt. but ive been there, and i know how it feels to ALWAYS consider your weight when things go as less than planned. when your self-image is already less than par, and then something like this happens and just magnifies those feelings a million times stronger.

stay up, girlie. just dont let something like this bring you down further, as difficult as that is to say.

side note: i feel like i mention this all the time, but i recently read this book called "secrets of a former fat girl" and its more about body image and self-acceptance than really a weight loss plan. it's an amazing book, try to get a hold of it if you can.

I am so sorry but you asked so I will give it. You slept with him. Many times this is just the kiss of death when it happens too early in a relationship. I am sure as a woman you already know it, but men interpret sex differently than we do. I would say start anew and learn from your experiences. If you don't have it already, purchase the book, "He's just not that into you." It's definitely worthy of a read.

jahjah may be onto something! my other thought to is, are you sure he is an M.D.? That's another thing guys often lie about.