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Just as bad as it is to call people "fat", I've always felt it cruel when people call him "weirdo" and stuff like that. Obviously we've corrected him when he's said somthing that sounds rude, but he still comes up with some zingers sometimes. |
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I kind of agree here. My husband likes fat chicks and married me at 300 pounds... we've worked it through now but for a while it was shakey.... FAT is not a negative word in my book. I wear my FAT status proudly. |
As a couple of other people pointed out, this guy probably wouldn't have intended you to hear what he said - your other friend passed it on. Probably both of them in fact saw it as a compliment - that you've lost a lot of weight - and this is why the guy you know thought you would like to hear it.
That said, he does sound a bit weird. I wouldn't worry any more about him, just be proud of how well you've clearly done. |
Not working with many women, men often forget that we have completely different ideas about what is funny, and what is offensive. A lot of the joking around I grew up with around my brothers was the same way, and could be taken as very offensive if someone didn't know it was a joke. He probably wasn't trying to be mean, and maybe thought you would get a kick out of the joke. If he mentions it again, just let him know you aren't mad, but it bothered you and ask him not to do it again.
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I agree. Men engage in doublespeak - they talk about things one way when their audience is male, a different way when women are around. Think locker room talk.
That said, it's a pretty sorry attempt at a joke, if that's what it was. |
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