Melissa - when I planned my life I wasn't thinking I would get married just shy of my 20th birthday at all, even though being a wife, mother, and homeschooler were things I was excited to do. But then I met my husband and we were married six months later, with our first baby just before our one year anniversary. And then I realized that I liked my kids spaced closely
I have a hard time looking at my wedding pictures, they are SO huge, but my husband loved me then and now, though he approves of the sexier, slimmer wife
We're trying for another now so I think this is a good place for a weight break and maintaining through another pregnancy - I don't think I'll feel so much like a walrus as I did the other three times!