I wasn't sure if this fell into the NSV thread or not, so forgive me if I should have posted this there instead. I don't think it's a NSV...it's more like my personal epiphany.
I used to shlump around, not really caring what I looked like. I'd throw on whatever was clean and at least halfway matched. Toss my hair back into a ponytail, not bother with makeup, etc. My attitude was "who cares anyway?" Until I read it here, I hadn't ever heard that "like putting lipstick on a pig" comment, but that really describes how I felt towards myself, I just didn't have a term for it. But, with this new attitude shift of mine, I have realized it's much more than losing weight. Yes, that's my main focus, for both my health and my appearance. But, it's also about taking care of ME. I did pretty well yesterday, for my first official day. I didn't go overboard on food, water could have been better (still trying to adjust to all the potty breaks!) and I did the 2 mile WATP video. I also didn't mentally beat myself up when I looked at my journal at the end of the day and say things like "well,
that was stupid, you shouldn't have eaten that popcorn." I looked at it, made a note of where I'd like to improve today and resolved to do it. Then, instead of just splashing my face...the "beauty routine" I had fallen into lately...I pulled out all my "goodies". I sell Avon, so I have a ton of products. I did the whole bit, the face wash, the eye cream, the lip cream, the toner, etc. (I figured I have them, might as well use them!) Today was a bad hair day (lol!) so up into a ponytail it went, but at least that was a last resort after fighting with it rather than a why bother. I also made it a point to go through my closet and put away all the clothes that are shapeless, ugly, and unflattering. I have some cuter things that currently fit, but I for some reason, after I bought them I hardly ever wore them. I guess it was another case of a why bother attitude. I'm wearing one of them today.
I'm GOING to lose this weight and get myself to a healthier point, but until I get there, why shouldn't I love who I am while I am on that trip? This is a real change for me. In the past when I've thought about losing weight, my attitude has been don't bother doing x (wearing make-up, dressing nicer, whatever) until you are xx pounds lighter. I'm so happy about this whole realization that my attitude has shifted that I am crying. Happiness tears are a good thing. I just felt compelled to share.
Christy