Hi everyone. I've done WW in the past (about 5 years ago) and it worked BRILLIANTLY! Since then, to make a long story short as possible, I developed some health issues, went through a horrendously emotionally and sexually abusive relationship... and have gained a TREMENDOUS amount of weight. I'm 290 lbs at the moment, and about 3 years ago my weight hovered around 128-135 lbs. I'm devastated by the severe and rapid decline of my health, and I have no support network and need to talk to someone--hoping someone here has gone through this.
I re-joined WW about 1.5 years ago, lost 11 lbs (mostly water) in the first month, then not a thing for 8 months following. I finally just gave up. Also should add.. I don't have a thyroid condition.
Over the past year my weight has gone up roughly 90 lbs, with 70 of that being in the last 6-8 months. No joke. I think it's due to a combination of things including, but not limited to, 3 heart arrhythmias (ablations for that was one year ago) that made me weak and fatigued, severe chronic pain no doctor can find the cause for, and more. And it just gets worse and worse.
I've recently been diagnosed with grade 1 NASH, but my GI doctor doesn't discuss anything with me and just says "Lose weight." Also diagnosed with Grade 2 Diastolic Dysfunction, and other issues with my heart have worsened, and I've developed issues with all the valves (have a long history of MVP since childhood, but now there's moderate regurgitation). I have mild, scattered scarring on lungs and a pulmonary nodule (12 mm) they're watching (I'm a non-smoker). And iron deficiency anemia, of which I've had two recent IV iron infusions. High cholesterol, high triglycerides, high BP... all pointing to Metabolic Syndrome.. though none of the doctors have even addressed that.
It's going to sound stupid, but I'm so ill, meaning I feel like I have the worst flu of my life (been the case for some time but is getting worse and worse) that I've not even begun to start the WW plan again---and I've been paying for it for several months now. I can't seem to get motivated, especially when standing up much of the time makes me feel weak, and I begin to sweat like I'm running uphill... when I'm just standing still.
I'm married, but my husband is totally indifferent to everything going on with me. NO support network at all due to living in a new city and not knowing anyone and not feeling well enough to go anywhere.
Last but not least.. I'm going through menopause, and I don't mean I 'think' I am based on symptoms, but confirmed with blood tests that shows my hormones in the BOTTOM range of "post menopausal." My testosterone level is 0.0...
I can't use HRT due to a TIA I had in 2013.
I don't even know where to begin now. I have complete exercise intolerance, though I've tried to walk, do crunches, squats (without weights) for years. In fact, I used to teach dance, was an avid gym-goer, and was thin. I know which came first, the chicken or the egg in this case... because I remember making the decision to stop going to the gym because I could no longer do anything there and would leave pale, exhausted in all the wrong ways, and with dark circles under my eyes. I would get home and take a 3 hr nap to try and recuperate.
My weight gain happened due to lifestyle changes that were forced upon me. I could no longer work out, teach dance, etc.. and the weight started coming on. In 2010 I began to try walking again, and this is when I did WW the first time. I lost 125 lbs without a hitch, without a plateau or stall. This is about the same time I got into that bad relationship, and I began to feel bad, exhaustion, emotionally just wracked by what was going on. My arrhythmias were getting worse as well, and no insurance meant no doctors. Eventually this lead to having the TIA.
Gosh... so much for a long story short, huh? :/ Sorry about that. I guess I'm just overwhelmed and have no one to talk to.
I guess the lack of a support network, a husband that often does things to undermine my efforts, not being able to work out, all the health issues... I don't know how to begin, what to do, what to think, and I don't know how to get past the depression that's setting in from all of this.
Just really lost beyond words.
Have any of you gone through this?... at all? Ever?
For anyone brave and patient enough to read through all of this... thank you.
E