A lot of people have said something along the lines of, "A person can't lose weight unless they're ready to lose weight and truly want to."
Well the thing is when I was about 12, I had a lot of what I'll call "unwanted sexual advances" by guys from school, all of which happened after I lost weight. I gained back all of that weight, plus around 70lbs, and now that I'm getting close to my goal weight, I'm getting uncomfortable. When I go out places, guys will give me what I call "the perverted stare." They'll do that even when I'm walking with my mother! I get the "up and down look" and even get followed around in stores being given the perverted stare from a distance. What adds to this disturbing me is that a lot of these guys must be in their 30's (I'm 18 and look my age), and sometimes they're even with their young child or wife! It makes me completely disgusted by guys and it makes me want to gain weight so I won't be noticed...these guys are creepy and scare me. I don't know what to do. Any advice?