Sorry to hear that you are going through this right now.
That must really suck to work so hard and have no results.
I have a couple questions for you and if they are too personal, I understand. I'm just trying to get a handle on your situation.
First of all- You are a DM type II? Are you taking metformin? If so what dose?
What was your last A1C? Or if you don't know what your last a1c was- how have your sugars been running? What are your other medications?
What is your water intake look like? Give me a rundown of a typical day of eating for you.
Second of all- don't get discouraged!!! You ARE beautiful and you are soooo lucky to have a husband as supportive and kind as yours is!! Not a lot of people can say that these days! You have had what we call a lot of non-scale victories!! (NSV) You have been making good choices for yourself. You have made the commitment and that is more than half the battle!! BE PROUD!!!
I think you have some more complex issues here and maybe there's just a few things that are being overlooked or something. Also- because of your medical conditions, it might be valuable to you to see a dietician who knows what's safe to try and what's not.
Don't give up, and don't cry....you are beautiful and loved!! This is just a small bump on the road to a healthier you!