starbrite:
you have done an AMAZING job with your weight loss! you have every reason to be proud & happy! you've done the hard work, and you're obviously much happier and I imagine much healthier as well!!
what your parents say/don't say or think/don't think cannot change the fact that you have made awesome strides in your personal well-being!!
that said, I know you said you "don't want their approval" but I think it's just the opposite. You really DO want their approval (and now I see in another post that you do admit to that) - and it's hard to admit that you want it! -you want their accolades, their smiles, their "way to go!" - yes, you want their approval. And you're simply afraid you won't get it, and by not getting it, perhaps you fear
"what will it do to my success?"
The trick, I think, is to not let their approval OR lack thereof dictate how your personal journey has made you feel. Parents, spouses, other loved ones have only as much power as we give them. Their attitudes, their ideas, their approval means something to us or they would simply have NO POWER at all. If you go into this visit with the full-frontal-knowledge that you do want their approval but are not expecting it, then you're already one step ahead.
Don't play mind games with yourself. It's not worth it! - JUST REMEMBER THIS: you have come a long way, baby! And nobody can "steal your thunder" unless you let them. Don't give them that power.
You've done great! WAY TO GO!!!