I'm not a total lurker, but I read way more than I post (except for one thread in the general chatter section). It is funny, I actually read this earlier and didn't post. I got to thinking about it and I have been saying the same thing that I need to post and be more supportive to others who have been supportive to me. So, I'll take the challenge, too.
lol.. my sarcasm is taken the wrong way on and off the internet.
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and I lurk. . . its my thing.
=] Im not nearly as witty as some of the people on here. and I feel bad if I ruin an thread. lol.
The emo-smilies really do help convey meaning more clearly...I use them all the time.
I love when people come out of lurkdom. People contribute so much, and they'd probably don't they had so much to say and add until they try! I know I didn't...I lurked for a long time, jumped in, and now you can't shut me up!
Anyway, I always feel like there is so many smart people on these boards that I would just end up saying "Yeah! What she said" all the time.
But, I will try to do better. Promise.
It's okay to just agree with what others have said. It can really help the OP when they see multiple people saying the same thing... it's kind of like, "Hey, if this has worked for so many people... maybe it'll work for me, too!"
Last edited by FreeSpirit; 02-03-2009 at 05:25 PM.
I'm a horrible lurker! I spend an insane amount of time on here but rarely actually post. There's this one message board I've been on for nearly 6 years and have posted less than 10 times, yet check it daily! It's strange because in real life I'm sooo social and have tons of friends but in the internet world I'm so shy. But I'm really trying to post more! You guys have given me so much support and I'm really trying to be there for all of you as well.
Ok, this is harder than I thought.
Anyone else having trouble making the 5 posts per day?
Forgot to add: You know, I used to post so much more when I first joined the site. But when I gained back weight I had already lost, I started to feel that I really don't have much to say. Loss of confidence, I guess. I also find that I add a disclaimer at the end of any advice I give... "not that I'm an expert at losing weight, obviously". Hmm. Makes me think I need to get rid of the negative thoughts.