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I'm sure we're both right AND both wrong- but we can't seem to support or motivate each other at all right now.
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That's so hard! It sounds to me like your approaches to weight loss are just very different. You need a little dessert to succeed; he doesn't want to be tempted AT ALL. You're taking a more moderate approach (that's sustainable for you), and he's going full throttle.
Maybe you should set some time aside to sit down together and talk about your respective choices regarding food and exercise. It might help if each of you explains to the other what your needs are and your rationale for choosing the plans you've chosen. Then just agree to stay out of each other's way.
That said, I'd be worried too - 1500/day for a big guy? I'm now eating around 1600/day and losing steadily. Yikes.