Good morning everybody! Yesterday, as I got going on the Phase 4 diet, I had a bunch of errands to do, did okay with a packaged chef salad on the road, and by the time I got home to put groceries away, late afternoon, I was pretty pathetic. You can have a snack then, so I opened a can of nuts I had just bought. Oh my... A serving says 1 oz, but by the time I could force myself to stop, it was a good 3 oz. I felt like I'd failed coming out of the running gate, so all the fears of backsliding reared their ugly heads. ('I want my Phase 1 !!!! ' )
I did check myself, and I did have a good dinner and an IP snack in the evening. This morning, as I reflect, I see once again, how 'all or nothing' I have been, most of my life. Either I'm a success or a total loser. I know life isn't like that. Then I perused the 'Daily Menu' thread and thought, maybe that's my next tool. With Phase 1 going on so long, I had gotten into a routine that worked, was easy for me. Of course, I didn't have nuts in the house, or my proverbial 'chocolate cake.'
This whole process is so humbling. This morning I am renewed with a drive to plan, again. Plan for those moments of being so pathetically tired or stressed that I'll grab anything. I got ahead of myself with the confidence that came from accomplishment, but the challenges continue. They are just new ones, and probably the hardest ones yet. The choices are so open now, I have to really, really want this new healthy life, and I do, and I will keep reminding myself of what I said in the beginning...' I want my life back! '
I hope this isn't all sounding too self-involved, but I'm thinking we all go through these things and can learn from each other. I have learned so much from all of you and appreciate your journeys.
Hope you all have a splendiferous day!