The days seem longer already - nice.
Another item on my Advantages Response Card is:
Create a single wardrobe. Reduce the clutter of mounds of clothes I can't wear.
When I'm living in the state of suspended personal responsibility - knowing that I'm at the wrong weight - I keep all my outgrown clothes in my closet, in stacks, in another room, wherever. I create clutter that further reduces my responsibility for my life. I have only a few items that currently fit yet have no space to add a new purchase. When I lost the 80 pounds, I felt free to donate all the mounds and to create space in my closet that allowed me to choose clothes that fit and that I liked.
I once asked a thin friend how he managed to stay the same size over the years. He replied that he had a whole wardrobe of well fitted clothes and whenever they began to feel snug, he cut back. I was struck that my behavior was to just buy a few
temporary items at the next size up.
Sue (CoastalSue) - Thanks for taking on Program-days 5 and 6 next week. We're now looking for someone to step up for Program-days 3 and 4 this week. Who can do that?
Your comment
"...large amount of only non-nutritious foods" reminds me that my excess weight came from packaged cookies and the like - not from too many apples. If your store were giving away free apples rather than Ben & Jerry's ice cream, I think I'd happily take the amount that would fit in my fridge that we could consume in a week. I wouldn't even think of knocking over small kids to get more.
MaryBlu - Thanks for getting us started on 2008 with Program-Days 1 and 2, and for the reminder,
"It is kinda the old adage, if you want to really learn something, teach it."
SuchAtwin - Waving back.
Ann (Newlifestyle) -
"If my food is all planned out for the day, I do much better than if I am winging it." That is true for me also, and it also grates me. For some reason I feel degraded that I have to plan as differs from the mythical thin people who eat intentionally with no effort. This reminds me that I also believe in mythical wise people who act without self doubt. Like really, LOL.
Cammie (CammieCam) - Come tell us just one nice thing about your Paris trip before you forget them all.
Heidi (hbuchwald) - Your observation,
"... it is also hard when they STOP [commenting on the weight loss]" reminds me that I give over feeling my own self worth to the comments of others. So you hit it, another good reason to keep reading my Advantages Response Card is to own my own self worth independent of comments by others.
Erika (eusebius) - The second item on your Advantages Response Card is
"Better health." That's also my second item - wonder where it fits in everybodys' prioritized list.
Readers -
"The way you think - seeing hunger as an emergency, overestimating the discomfort and duration of cravings, underestimating how thin people restrict their eating - makes it more difficult for you to stick with a diet." Beck, pg 43.
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Completed Beck Program-day 42. You’ve met your goal. Congratulations!