Dagmar,
that this is the right thing for DH. It has to be difficult to live with somebody who's um, "happiness challenged". I am beginning to appreciate some of the thinking behind the reincarnation-based faiths - that there are lessons to be learned and we're going to keep doing it til we get it right. Generating your own peace and contentment regardless of circumstance sure seems to be a major lesson.
This weekend is the Michigan Homebrewer's Festival. Combined with "car" camping.
After that, the rest of August becomes a full assault on DS's room - changing it over from the little-kid theme to something more appropriate to a 15 year old. He's going from a twin to a queen bed, and getting a nice corner desk with a hutch and lots of room for studying. I've been driving myself
with researching mattresses, and resigning myself to paying a small fortune for one that doesn't have a bunch of flame-******ant chemicals built into it. Ah well. We do what we can. (ETA - I am laughing pretty hard at the censoring in the prior sentence. Sheesh!)