for your weight loss so far...and for joining up here!
I did the same as you...I kind of lurked around here for a week or so seeing what the deal was. I had been on forums before, but there was usually alot of bickering/fighting/name calling/ or just being rude!
After a year here...I can honestly say that not once have I dealt with anything like that here!!! The people here are really nice and truely want to to succeed! AND they are here for support/advice/or anything else you need!
I too have had a hard time with "diets". I find them too restrictive! I have had resent success with calorie counting and just learning to have lower calorie portions of the food I like!
Good luck...there is so much here you are sure to find something that will work for you!