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Old 05-20-2006, 07:41 PM   #1  
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So last night my boyfriend and I had the biggest fight. We have not faught for the longest time. I was sooo upset last night! I think the stress of not working, and recovering from my illness combined with the fact that I hardly see my bf just set me off. I get lonely sometimes and feel that he should spend more time with me. He works & wants time to relax (sports help him relax-I hate watching them on TV), coaches baseball, and sees his guys after ball. I just felt like there was no time for me. so we got into this massive fight over it. after we both calmed down we were able to talk and we both realized that we are taking eachother for granted, which happens its no ones falt but we both agreed to work on it, and voice it when we do feel that way...and we decided that we would have one night a week where we do whatever I want! even if it is watching TV... we both felt better after that!

I hate fighting!

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Old 05-20-2006, 08:38 PM   #2  
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well, with my last boyfriend, whenever we got into fights, I'd let him do whatever he wanted after. I just wouldn't say much and he'd feel a bit awkward and sorry for anything he started and then come crawling back. I decided it was
time I just let him go eventually (dumped him). I've never been happier after that and he was miserable. Sometimes I gotta be a bit selfish for myself.

I am no way suggesting that you do that. That's just my story lol!
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Old 05-21-2006, 09:49 AM   #3  
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no worries id din't even think that! but I am sooooo gald you were selfish! my friend did just that with her boyfriend of 5 years. She and him we always fighting, not to mension he was very controling (picture rage if she had a friend-a girl_ spend the night cuz it was too late for her towalk)...so she dumped him and is now with a guy that reats her like gold!!!

good for you for being selfish!!!!
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