[Daisyjoe]

Hello all!

So long story short I am meeting this amazing man that I met online this weekend. He is very handsome and takes good care of his body. We've been talking for several months. He's so handsome and has such a great personality. However, I'm extremely nervous about what he'll think of my weight and body. How can I not worry about it so much? What outfits help make you look slimmer? Ant advice? Do I tell him I'm sti

[timtamfan]

Honestly, you look great already! I assume you have pictures up on the website so he knows what you look like. DO NOT TELL HIM YOU ARE TRYING TO LOSE MORE WEIGHT ON THE FIRST DATE! This will only make you look insecure. If he is as amazing as you say he is, he won't judge you for being a few pounds over your goal weight. And if he does judge you for it, he does not deserve you. Go out feeling confident and be yourself. The rest will fall into place.

[Daisyjoe]

Originally Posted by timtamfan

Honestly, you look great already! I assume you have pictures up on the website so he knows what you look like. DO NOT TELL HIM YOU ARE TRYING TO LOSE MORE WEIGHT ON THE FIRST DATE! This will only make you look insecure. If he is as amazing as you say he is, he won't judge you for being a few pounds over your goal weight. And if he does judge you for it, he does not deserve you. Go out feeling confident and be yourself. The rest will fall into place.

Yes he has seen my face plenty of times but only a few body photos. Thank you for the great advice. It's just very difficult to not worry myself sick about how my body isn't close to being as perfect as his.

[MyKidsandMyCat]

So what happened? Update please!