[Kahokkuri]

Originally Posted by Daki

And I'm pretty sure 150 is the default weight to call someone who isn't 110. My boyfriend thought I was 150. My mother thought I was 150. My grandma thought I was 150. The aforementioned male friend thought I was 150. As did another male friend. What the heck did they all think I weighed when I was 150?!

LOL, this! Back in middle school before I started doing spin class in addition to swim team I was about 170lbs. I guess one day I wore something unflattering and my mom told me I looked, "at least 150lbs!". Unfortunately, I was elated rather than upset, which just goes to show how dysfunctionally I was thinking about my own body.

[AriesNV]

Originally Posted by Ramra

Well, my boyfriend has never said anything cute. But one time I asked him what his ideal number is for me to weigh, and he said "120". And I thought 130 was kind of pushing it.

I guess I shouldn't have asked.

Sometimes men don't say anything "cute", but your bf definitely shouldn't have said anything AT ALL! lol...I learned a long time ago not to even ask those questions, because it does sometimes set you up for disappointment. However, if I did, I'd be expecting my guy to say something like "You're ideal the way you are now," or something to that nature.



MEN! Grrr. lol