Hehehe, I wish life did come with guidelines, you'll just have to follow your own gut instinct! Take some quiet time all by yourself and figure out what you really want.
If you think you'd like, why not try it for the summer to see how it goes. You might not want to rent out your house until you know you and your daughter will be comfortable being there all the time, but by the end of summer you would know. If you're happy, rent out you house then. At least if you moved in with him (temporarily), you'll be able to leave when and if you want.
What does your daughter think about it? If she'll be happy, you have a good chance of it working out, but if she's against it, I would probably wait a while longer.
All in all, you'll figure out what you need to do, I have faith in you!
Just go as fast or slow as you want, if he loves you he wont push or leave!!
Hang in there!
Elaine
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