I'm sorry I missed your post
Nadya is right about the spam filter. I went ahead and enabled it for your blog account, and it should help. I also turned off email notifications for your blog. If you start blogging again you can turn them back on if you want to.
If you are getting notices for comments that don't appear, will you please forward them to me so I can investigate? Forward them to help @ 3fatchicks.com
Thanks!!