thats a rough deal. Let me point you to
www.talkaboutsleep.com they have narcolepsy and apnea forums. I remember someone else that had both. I just have rem apnea, I regained my life with cpap. You have to commit to it, but after you get it figured out its not bad. I named my cpap tom cruise cause I like sleeping with tom everynight. LOL
I have read some gastric bypass research that apnea was completely cured in morbidly obese with weight loss.
I hope all your treatment goes well.
PS: I started losing wt for the first time once I got my apnea treated, after gaining 45lbs in 2 years.