Good Morning Liz! (if my vote counts) I vote for you to get some rest this morning rather than cleaning. gosh ya gotta have some sleep to keep going and do all the things you do!
Now about that neat and tidy house....well everybody says my house is neat and tidy (which I think puts extra pressure on me to keep that way - goodness a gracious - would hate for somebody to show up and think I fell off my cleaning throne LOL) but I never feel that my house is clean. Neat and tidy maybe but never clean enough. Can't explain it, it's a stupid little feeling in the pit of my stomach that my house is not really clean (maybe an obsessive thing but it's just the way I have always been) even tho I remind myself over and over and over again that it's really not important how clean my house is, that it is more important for me to spend time with family and friends! I remind myself that all the time, I mean what they gonna put on my tombstone when I die ... "she kept a clean house" or "she will be dearly missed - she was great to spend time with" - I want the second one on there. ;-) (can you tell I'm preaching to myself here LOL).
As I've had kids and especially as my boys have gotten older I've had to mellow WAY OUT and let them have their space. Just yesterday I came home and there were 4 other vehicles in my driveway and the guys friends were hanging out (this is almost a daily thing) so my house is full of teenagers all the time, and I really do like it that away (most of the time anyway), but you know, they are all great. They act like it's home and they eat supper, put their dishes in the dishwasher, and believe it or not they all take their shoes off at the door. They must not mind doing those things because they know we love them and that they are always welcome and they seem to enjoy being at our house. But still, my door is always a swinging with people in and out. LOL
so like - I'm sure this was wayyyyyy more information then you wanted to know!
(wonder where our little Leenie is today? she is usually in here by now?)
Leenie - is your counseling tonight or was it last night?
ok I'll quit rambling for now!
hugs,
cathy