I lost weight after my nagging gf left me :D - 3 Fat Chicks on a Diet Weight Loss Community

skinnyagainColin · 10-21-2013, 12:50 AM

When i was with this girl she`d complain i spend to much time at the local swimming pool/fitness centre. She'd ask me where i am and i'll tell her the fitness centre. She'll come by and ruin my workout ...then want me to leave after 10 mins of being there. What kind of workout can i do in ten mins? My god i cant even shower and put on my clothes in that time. Then we'll go out for dinner and i always pay for crap i dont even like eating. She'll order a bunch of things she doesnt even eat much of. Expecting me to help her finish her meals. Since she left im 30 lbs lighter and at a ideal weight(a sight which says im athletic lol)

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I just had to get this story off my chest. Dont ever let some gf/bf stop you from achieving your goals of weight loss or dreams.

StaceyDanielle · 10-21-2013, 02:17 AM

Great job Colin!! My bf has recently loss 40 lbs and I'm trying not to be the nagging gf, lol. He works out everyday, sometimes twice a day and I encourage him to keep it up. We used to work out together, but the past couple of months, I've been a slacker. I plan on getting back on track this week! Keep up the good work!!!

geoblewis · 10-21-2013, 02:24 AM

Yeah Colin! Sounds like she did you a BIG favor. Don't stay with someone who causes you to change who you are for all the wrong reasons.

I too lost weight after leaving my ex. I actually tried losing weight several times, but he kept sabotaging my progress once other men started noticing me. And I'd cave. But this time, I didn't cave to any of it, so he dumped me. AND I'M SO HAPPY!

Palestrina · 10-21-2013, 07:58 AM

Sometimes other people can be toxic. I remember having a boyfriend in high school who put me down a lot, would always suggest I eat more and looking back I think he wanted me to gain weight so that nobody else would look at me. Your ex sounds very controlling, it's never a good thing to have people controlling you. Glad you got out of that, maybe your next girlfriend will enjoy physically activity and fitness.

ILoveVegetables · 10-22-2013, 10:00 AM

Good for you, Colin. No one should be in a relationship where their partner doesn't support them if they're trying to better themselves, especially for something as big as this.

Congratulations on your loss.