OK you asked for it.. sorry, but I have no magic trick. Just mostly common sense.
1) calorie counting - using dietwatch software. I keep calorie level at ~1500 a day. Balanced diet. 80-100g protein, 200g carbs, and 35-45 g fat ( with saturated fat, the heart killer at less than 16 g a day)
2) Water.. 8+ glasses
3) 45 minutes 5X a week of cardiovascular exercise.. step, aerobics.. and my latest tape.. latin dance workout. 6th day is usually lots of housework or gardening.
4) buying some new clothes every 20-25 pounds - keeps you motivated to see things get bigger. ( the clothes, not you
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5) Planning,planning planning.. have I mentioned planning? I decide what meals I want to make for the week and I buy that stuff.
6) allowing self to eat like a normal person from tiem to time. No, this doesnt mean going on a binge, but this does mean eating out with people and not fussin over every mouthful.. just being careful. And.. after that one meal off, going right back to plan.. NO EXCUSES!!
7) The big thing is.. believing that I am worth being healthier. I want to live a long time and frankly being overweight is a risk factor for all sorts of illnesses. I may not be having troubles now.. but believe me, it isn't a matter of IF.. it is a matter of WHEN.
8) not stuffing down my emotions with food.. be they happy sad, depressed or otherwise.. eating when I feel "empty" isn't going to fill up the hole a lot of us feel in our lives. The hole will still be there.
Bottom line.. self esteem ladies.. self esteem. I have a long way to go still..like 50 pounds, but I my self esteem has improved tremendously with the 30some pounds that are gone. Imagine what a big ego I am gonna have when I hit goal..
I love me more than any piece of pizza, donut.. even a cookie!!!