i'm not even sure how to word my post or what advice i'm seeking, so whatever you throw at me will be appreciated.
2 things are kinda bugging me.
1) the other night i was watching the dr. oz show. at one point he was talking to a woman who had a sugar addiction. he put her on a scale and weighed her...she weighed 189 pounds. both of them...in unison...kind of went, "ugh, bad," or something to that effect. i've recently lost 30 pounds and currently weigh 185. i thought to myself, "holy crap! she only weighs 4 pounds more than i do and
that's enough for dr. oz to go 'UGH' on television!"
it sort of drove home the point that, while i have lost some weight and i'm looking better and feeling better, the truth is i still have quite a way to go. i think recently i've been a little loosey goosey with my program...as if i can slow down now simply because i'm in the 180's. why would i do that? i'm not sure...but i'm glad that dr. oz groaned on television. it's given me the push i needed to KEEP GOING!
2) as i'm losing weight and my body is changing...i seem to be getting MORE self conscious.
some days i throw on a pair of jeans and say, "yep...lookin good sister!" but sometimes i'm horribly critical of myself...dissecting this fat bit or that bit of pudge...but 30 pounds ago i never gave it a second thought. i was just like, "yep. i'm overweight. WHATEVER." even with my boyfriend...sometimes when he's got his hands on me i'll think, "oh i hope he doesn't notice that fat right there." UH HELLO??
what about the fat 30 pounds ago? why did
that fat not bother me? (for the record my boyfriend loves me madly and has never said a peep about my weight or my body negatively. so he isn't fueling my crazy fire...this is all me.
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i guess i'm just wondering if anyone else notices things like this happening as they lose weight. any insights?