Have any of you had this happen? I have had two of my dearest friends in the past two weeks mention how I look when I eat or me trying to answer a question when I have food in my mouth.
The first was when I was eating vietnamese pho (spicy noodles) well....living here in Korea I have been eating noodles like the locals because it makes it easier. You put your head lower to the bowl and slurp a little. It keeps the splashing away to me. Anyway this friend of mine was across from me and she said "Wow you are really enjoying your noodles" I thought is she being sarcastic or just innocent about the whole thing. But I have to say it really bothered me. I felt like I looked like a big slob.
The other incident was Friday at lunch at work. One of my co-workers asked a question and I put my hand up to my mouth and covered it when I answered back because people get annoyed now a days when you don't answer right away if you have fod in your mouth...go figure. Well my other co-worker said something funny about my talking and not being understood.
Now I know niether of these incidents should bother me but I started questioning....do I eat too fast??? Do I look like a slob??? I am not sure....
The local culture eats fast in general and chews with their mouth open and chatting at the same time. These folks that made comments were Americans.....
So I decided that I am looking at portion control and eating slowly.
It all got under my skin so now I am trying to eat slower and put the fork down....
And then last night I get asked...don't you like the food???
Jeez!!!!
Has anyone here had this happen and how do you handle what are most likely innocent comments.