Hi NewMommy!
No one can tell you when you are ready to join, you have to tell you. I know that my family wanted me to join something, anything to help me lose the weight and I thought they should all just leave me alone. Then one night I just decided I was
TIRED of being fat, tired of hiding behind baggy sweats and big tee-shirts, tired of feeling like I wasn't a pretty woman, so all in all, just plain tired. That night I decided I would go to Weight Watchers, I was worth the extra money, I was worth it.
It was the hardest thing I ever did, walking through those doors, but now that I am over 50 pounds lighter, I would never change a thing. It is the easiest program I have ever tried, and I have tried them all. And for once, I am successful. It may take me a long time, but no matter what, I will do it, because I want to. You have to feel that, whenever you are ready, just give it a shot.
Good luck to you, I hope that this helped a little.
xstitch