it's so funny how much stock we (american culture/females/etc.) put into breasts in general and how they are this trademark/hallmark of femininity. looking at it objectively i know i am of equal "womanliness" as i was with bigger boobs, but right now i've lost almost 15 lbs and i think it's all coming from up in my knockers. so hopefully it'll all be worth it cause if i still don't see any hint of a waist after 5-10 more lbs gone and i'm just left with saggy boobs, pre-kids and only 27, i may get a motivation problem. it's hard cause they're the only thing that used to make me feel sexy and confident so now that they're rapidly becoming a point of self-consciousness while the rest of the body has yet to transform into a sex kitten it's getting a little hard to see the forest for the trees. sorry for the long rant. think i'm just having a little grey morning. give me an hour, i'll be peppy again. thanks for letting me vent for a minute!!
sorry just re-read this after turning my morning around and i had to comment on my own annoyingness. i was clearly just frustrated. sorry sexiness and femininity are not located in one's bosom, they are largely in the mind and the manifestation of that through confidence. i may end up with a straight torso and sock boobs but damnit i'm gonna rock them out and i know, should y'all end up with such "swing low sweet chariots" as well, you'll rock 'em out too
Don't apologize, it's something we all struggle with as women. I love my boobs, I hope they don't leave. They were the one thing I played up when I was obese because they were the 'sexy' part of me.
Now as I lose weight, I'm getting a butt (never had one!), my legs look longer because they are thinner, and a slim waist so if my boobs have to go, I guess I'll just have to play those up for sexiness
it's getting a little hard to see the forest for the trees. sorry for the long rant. think i'm just having a little grey morning. give me an hour, i'll be peppy again. thanks for letting me vent for a minute!!
