There were 2 "weirdness quizzes" floating around the internet a while ago. A group of friends of mine took it.
One of the questions was "would you rather gain 50 lbs (or 100 lbs in the other quiz) or get run over by a truck" I was amazed at the number who chose get run over by a truck. This isnt statistics, these are just my friends, about 30 women all 25-40. Well more than half would rather get run over by a truck. "as long as I am not killed or paralyzed" but I didnt think that was implicit in the question that you could count on that.
A whole lot of setbacks. Starting over.
Mini Goal #1