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Old 01-03-2010, 05:38 AM   #1
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Today would have been our 19th wedding anniversary. I was blessed to have him in my life for 11 years. He passed away on March 14, 1999 while I lay in bed holding him. Even though today I am in a new relationship, I still love him and miss him so much and days like this only refresh my grief.

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Old 01-03-2010, 06:12 AM   #2
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I am so sorry you had to go though something so tragic!!! I will keep you in my prayers. You will always have your memories of him and the Love that you shared with him. Hold on to that because that is precious.
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Old 01-03-2010, 06:16 AM   #3
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Old 01-03-2010, 07:19 AM   #4
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My heart goes out to you especially today when your loss is so painful. That is a wonderful picture of you together. I know he will be in your heart always. I will say a pray for both of you.
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Old 01-03-2010, 07:46 AM   #5
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Oh Michelle, I am so sorry for your loss, pain and suffering. I can't imagine what it must be like to lose a husband at such an early time. What a horrific tragedy.

I hope you take some time to reflect on some fond memories of him and you today and you can find some peace within. I'm sure it will be a difficult day though indeed.
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Old 01-03-2010, 07:53 AM   #6
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This is such a hard day. Losing a loved one is devastating. I am hoping that you have many good memories of your times together to help your through today.
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Old 01-03-2010, 08:01 AM   #7
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Major ((HUGS)) I can't imagine the pain you've dealt with all these years.
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Old 01-03-2010, 08:37 AM   #8
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hang in there, Michelle. I know he'd be proud of you for all you've done. I'm sure he's at your shoulder right now cheering you on to experience all the happiness in the world.
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Old 01-03-2010, 08:42 AM   #9
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Michelle! Trust me, he's here with you.
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Old 01-03-2010, 09:28 AM   #10
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I can't imagine what it must be like to have your husband taken away like that. Take care of yourself and know that we're all thinking of you.
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Awwww Michelle, I wish we could make you feel better. Keep him in your heart and he'll live on in your memories.
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so sorry for your loss. the picture is very sweet - your love really shows in it.
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Old 01-03-2010, 10:25 AM   #13
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So sorry I almost lost my baby so I kind of know what you went and are going through. You have all my love,hugs and kisses,.The photo is beautiful. You are gorgeous!
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