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JayEll originally posted Besides, you don't know how many of those "little old ladies" who are walking so fast used to be overweight.
And by the way, even though I am older and not very tall, I would rather not be called a "little old lady." If you think about it, it's kinda dismissive and demeaning.
Jay, I am sincerely sorry for having offended you. In trying to treat this with a little humor, I was insensitive.
I really admire the ladies that I was discussing. Three years ago, my eighty-year-old mother-in-law, who was 5" tall, referred to herself as a "little old lady." I could not keep up with her when we walked. The reason... she was a fit and trim 80 year old who walked every day and I was a morbidly obese 51-year-old who moved as little as possible.
Seriously, I am in training to be a fit senior citizen. I am much fitter today than I was a year ago and hope that in another year I will be fit by anyone's standards. About the senior citizen part, I don't know if 55 will be considered a senior citizen or not.
As I am just 5'2" tall, I will start referring to myself as a "little old lady" someday.
The wellness center where I walk has a free program for senior citizens so there are a large number of them walking the track. They regularly pass me because they are in better shape than I am. I look forward to the day that I can keep up with them. I will also sign up for the senior citizen program on my 55th birthday, the first day that I am eligible. They have free personal training and I look forward to that.
I am sorry that I offended, my underlining meaning was to compliment the ladies and express my desire to be like them. Lesson learned!