I don't let my weight stop me from doing things that ARE possible......when in Florida, I still put on my suit and went swimming and sunning, every day we were there - when we're in the mountains, I still hike (a lot SLOWER than the rest of the group, but I am still hiking!) I have ridden my ATV with the best of them at 270 pounds.
The thing I am missing out on though, is my health, and my looks. I WANT to look good, I WANT to be healthy. Those are the things I am missing out on. (and being able to fit into the rides at the amusement parks!) Soon, though, very soon, all this will pass and I WILL BE healthy, and I WILL look good, and I WILL fit in the rides!