Hi Toodle and Jeterlover,
I don't post often on this forum but I did want to welcome you both and let you know that there are a lot of us here going through exactly what you're going through. Jeter, please don't be ashamed of yourself because of your weight ... your weight is NOT you! You are so much more than those numbers but I know it's a brutal world and when people see me the first time, the weight is probably the first thing they notice.
I lost from 287 to 193 doing WW flex points a couple of years ago but gained just about every pound of it back when I quit smoking last May. I started WW Core this week and am plugging away. We can all do it! You girls will probably have an easier time too since you're younger ... I'm closer to 50 than to 40 so my metabolism is not what it used to be!
Good luck to both of you!
Deborah