Hi Kyethra
Thats interesting....
The band is not a cure for weight loss, its a tool.....you still have to deal with all the head issues your dealing with NOW....these issues don't go away once your cut open...it could take years. If anyone is going into this thinking otherwise they certainly are in for a rude awakening.
For instance if your eating like crap now, and your thinking your gonna be able to eat this way after being banded...the band isn't going to help you...you need to learn to eat healthy and yes calorie counting is the key along with exercise. Junk food goes down way to easy with the band for some reason.
Also, the lapband is not ment for rapid weight loss, its 1 - 2 lbs a week at most. So if some one has the band for a year and loses 40 lbs... IMHO thats wonderful!!!! It might take them 2 - 3 years to lose all their weight but thats how its supposed to be. Its certainly not a quick fix. So who's to say that 40 lbs a year is slow? see what I mean.
I think you have the right mindset for this procedure.... diet and exercise is whats needed to be successful with the band, no matter if you lose 100 lbs or 40 lbs in the first year....its all good !!!
Good luck !!!!
Oh... I've lost 60 in my first year.... I'm struggling now but I'll get back on track