jiffypop- My Dr in Dallas is Dr. John Alexander. He was a consulting Dr on Carnie Wilson's surgical team and is pretty reputable in this area (And his charges reflect it! Ha!). I have talked to a handful of his patients. He leaves a tube in for 3 weeks to drain your stomach if you need to (i.e. in case you get nauseus, etc.) Most that I talked to, remained off of work for the 3 weeks while the tube was in because they were concerned about working with it. Three of those actually said they could have gone back to work sooner... so I'm hoping to be one of those!!
CJsPrincess-Thanks! I am excited, but now getting nervous. I am worried that I am being too optimistic about the recovery time. I'm not a whimp either but....Wondering what my boss is going to say if I have to be out longer...
I did choose Open RNY for a reason, I know Laproscopy would have been much easier on my body; but I decided that I would rather have a longer/rougher recovery time than risk some of the other problems that Laproscopy has had. Everyone has their own reasons... I know people who have had success with both types of surgeries and no complications, I just hope and pray to be one of those!!

If there are any Dr. Alexander's patients out there- I want to hear from you!! Good or Bad experience; I want to know!!
Thanks for your help ladies!
-Sher