Flavors are funny right after surg! maybe a crystal light slushy or something would be good. .. However he's a big boy he knows he has to drink so it's in his hands
Nessa - keep an eye on the cream of wheat and the cream soups. if he starts feeling bad, please keep in mind that these two items are LOADED with carbs - and that to be on the safe side [ie, to avoid DUMPING], he should keep his consumption to 15 grams of carbs or LESS per eating 'episode' [i can't bring myself to call them MEALS at this point!! )
I was going to suggest that or splenda and a little vanilla extract
or italian seasoning parm cheese and garlic powder
and if that doesn't work
Put his recovery chair out by the side of the road with a sign Pain in the arse Free to good home
not sure whether to laugh or cry for your DH, Nessa!!! buyers remorse??? does that mean he's surprised that healing is uncomfortable? or that he can pretty much only LOOK at food these days???
what's going on? believe me, we empathize here!!!!!
I keep suggesting a shower might make him feel better... but he's afraid of getting his steri strips wet.. OY. or maybe he just likes the sponge baths... LOL
I think he's healing fine, it's the "I can't eat anything" that's killing him.
i remember one guy in one of my support groups. he'd healed well, lost something like 50 pounds in the few weeks of post-op, and he came to the meeting the first week he was able to go back to work. and PROUDLY TOLD US ALL that he'd eaten a donut the first day back!!! and when we asked him WHY he ate it - his answer was IT WAS FREE - with that expression like 'of course i'd eat it if it was free!!!!!'
I know. I'm worried about depression for him. He's always been one to be a bit teary eyed (he's totally in touch with his feminine side on some things). he cried at touched by an angel the other night... poor boy.
and to top it all off the company he works for was closed permanently on friday so he's job hunting as well...
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