Being happy, with living a healthy lifestyle should be your first objective.
Our bodies are all different.
We lose it in different places sooner and or later. Just depends.
You can lose without surgery. Thing is, we have to accept whatever body we have, and quit, beating ourselves over the head about it, and learn to love what we have.
My weight has ranged between, pregnant and not, from 135 to 200. Currently at 140, my boobs, since 15, and I am 56, no matter my weight, I cannot, get them out of a double D.

I have a genetically inherited, pot gut, that having twins that were over 6 pounds each did not help.
I totally love my body! I have cleavage! I have strong arms to hug my grandkids, play with them, teach them to swim, ride a bike, I can shoot trap, with my DH and my boys, I can change a tire, a radiator, a starter in my car.
I can do so many things because I am healthy and strong.
Don't worry about how you look.
BE the person, you want others to look up to!

