I'm new here but you'll find I'm going to dive right in because I've read through and can see you're all amazing.

So, if you've read my recent post on the intro boards you'll find details about my reasons for weight loss and my goal weight. I've lost about 26 pounds so far, but I've got like 56 to go and I'd rather it be sooner than later since I want to get to my goal weight so I can do a breast reduction. I need to get to the place I want to end up at and no higher, since weight loss post-surgery isn't recommended or "I won't be happy with the way the look after that". The do fine if you gain, but losing after isn't the most ideal... so, hitting your final target is really recommended.
My concern is a drastic diet plan, such as Optifast. First off, I don't want to be hungry. I get migraines and missing meals triggers me... and I get cranky which would be terrible for everyone around. ;-) Second, I worry that if I did the Optifast program, once I'm off it I would gain weight back because I'm no longer on an essentially liquid diet. I know that they move you into eating more and less shakes, but it looked to me like if you want to maintain you'll still need to meal supplement daily with the shakes. I don't think that's realistic for me for the rest of my life.
I don't want to work so hard at losing only to find that once I move into a maintenance regime I can't sustain it because it doesn't fit into a "normal" lifestyle that my family can work with right along with me. So, what I've been doing is modifying my intake so that I stay at 1000 calories or under each day, occasionally allowing myself to eat a cautious dinner out with my family once a week or every other week, and walking at least a mile a day. Drinking around 64 ounces of water a day is a goal, but that's super hard to do for me. I'm putting in oranges, lemons, etc. I can't drink the water flavorers because they just have too much artificial sweetener (Truvia doesn't bother me, though). The issue is that this isn't "fast" at all. In fact it seems painfully slow now... so, I'm torn!
What are your thoughts on these super-diets that I call "drastic dieting" over the long haul?
Thanks for your help!
- L


