That sounds a lot like my husband.
He whines about losing weight and then sits in front of the TV all day eating frosted mini wheats. o_O
He's losing weight though simply because I do all the cooking and grocery shopping and he's forced to eat whatever I make. Lately that's been a lot of grilled meat and veggies. I will give him points on going to the gym with me now and then however. Even though he only does 15 min on the treadmill and then 15 mins on the strength circuit, at least he's doing something.
What frustrates me the most is the fact that he refuses to weigh. Okay, I'm a little obsessed with the scale LOL, but he never weighs unless it's an after thought or I prod him. I can tell he's lost weight, especially in his face and his pants fall off a bit now, but does he care? No. He just refuses to get serious at all.
He's one of those men that can drop weight super fast without doing much at all while I'm a woman with a hormone system that hates me.
Should or shouldn't, I did badger him. Then I just gave up. He'll do what he wants and I love him fat or skinny.
It does get annoying when he complains though and then does nothing about helping himself. But what can I do? I totally understand your plight, but it's a decision he has to make himself. I tried to get mine to log on MFP, but he told me he wants me to do it for him. Um, no honey LOL.