If I could only have had every single one of you in the fitting room with me yesterday! I am not objective about myself sometimes, but you all made it crystal clear that I need to knock off the negative self-talk and stop fearing failure (and success). The ships are ablaze now! I love the perspective of thinking about marriage statistics; not once have I feared my marriage would fail in the way I have thought about re-gaining weight. I have an unspoken sense of control over my marriage, and I need to approach maintenance the same way. I will enjoy my new clothes and bask in the well deserved joy of my new body.