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I am new posting in this forum, but I just wanted to let you know, that some people are just careless with what they say, some are just know-it-all JERKS and some can't get any attention unless they are being negative about someone else.

NONE of that reflects on you, even if it FEELS like it does. :hug:

I probably would have been hauled out of that Target for my razor sharp tongue.

I hope no one minds me jumping in here. It has been hard finding where I fit in around here. However, when I read your post, I just wanted to hug you! :hug:

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Originally Posted by Ellemphriem (Post 4748649)

I've been overweight alright more than once, but i have never been bullied that way. I don't know how it feels and i don't understand why such a thing would happen in the adult world. Maybe there is a cultural difference here, but complete strangers don't just walk up to you to offer rude comments. In my place that's a good reason to start a major fight. Maybe that's why it never happens (or rarely for i have never seen it). Those remarks were way too insulting. Especially the first one, the second was made in good humour i'd say. You were right to feel so sensitive and insulted. I have raised **** with strangers for lesser reasons.......they were complete *******s and i hope they will someday get their heads out off their a@ses.

I am so so sorry you had to go through this.......

I know!! This is exactly why I was so baffled about how he could say something like that. At my highest weight I didn't get comments like that, I actually never got comments like that from anyone (just family) but never total strangers.

It was worse that the alarm things went off too, I felt like I couldn't even silently get out of the store because everyone is staring at me thinking I'm a shoplifter :(

On a side note, my friend told me maybe he didn't want me to buy the dumbbells that I picked up that were on clearance lol, gave me a good laugh, but next time I will speak up if someone makes tasteless remarks like that!!

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Originally Posted by irishsarah (Post 4748653)

Thank you! You all have made me feel so much better! :hug: and you can jump in anywhere on 3FC irishsarah!! :)