There's no need to starve..... you can have larger portions as long as you're making the right choices. I like a full plate myself. But I bulk my plate up by adding veggies. I love pasta dishes and I love meat. But have to limit the intake on those foods.
When I make spagetti or ziti, I also mix in veggies. On the weekend I cook up lots of veggies in different ways. I cook up onions and peppers to mix in. I also cook summer squash and zuccini and will mix that with diced tomatoes. I make batches of low-fat coleslaw for a side dish. I love mashed turnips.
To limit my meat, I usually cut it up into bite size pieces and mix it in with veggies - it seems to make the meat stretch because I'm not taking huge bites at a time -- the cut-up pieces last longer.
Maybe you should start your meals with some soup or a salad.
If you get hungry between meals make a fruit smoothie - helps sooth the hunger and adds fruit and dairy to your day.
There are days I think to myself I really ate a lot today - but I don't feel guilty because I'm eating the right foods. I used to eat a lot of chips and soda, and chocolate used to be a good friend

and had fast food regularly. Eating healthy takes more time and effort -- but the results are well worth it.
So don't go hungry -- just think about ways to bulk-up your meals in a healthy way. Good luck to you.
Mary