Thank you Jen for your reply. Let me start with you look amazing!
I am too weak to go as long as you but I didn't plan a whole day of bad behavior, even though I have read others might do that. Yes, I would like a dinner and small dessert and wondered if it might keep me more honest if I scheduled it. Mostly I wondered if I could be successful if I did this 2-4 times per month or if it might really hinder me.I admit my concious is always helping me chose the better choices for screwing up with, with exception of my last time. Which I wn't repeat.