My arms are my problem area. Whenever I lose weight, the fat comes off my waist/stomach area first. Not that I'm complaining, but not having skinny arms suck! I feel so bulky.. Like a man, because of my huge arms.
I hear lifting weight helps a lot.. But how many pounds should I be lifting? And if I don't lift at all, will my arms ever slim down from just dieting alone?

I've always had big arms and now that I lost weight, they have slimmed a lot, but are still bulky. I do a lot of strength training and that makes my arms look better, but they still are big .. So I really know how you feel. I would suggest not heavy weights, but lighter and high reps for toning. Good luck!