Hi sexychick, please don't be repelled by the ageist posts! This is usually a very supportive board.
Yes, of course I want to look great for guys! I love guys, particularly Germans hehe
The thing in my case is, that guys tend to prefer my rounder version! So that's one thing that's been on my mind, however, I will continue to lose the weight because (that's what I want) but also I will be more comfortable and attractive at my goal weight, and confident people are more attractive.
Guys are definitely not my priority, I enjoy looking the way I want to look, wearing what I like etc. , but I certainly don't consider it 'shallow' either.